Maroon Posted April 27, 2014 Share Posted April 27, 2014 I just have to bump this thread because of the amazing effects I had with Topper last nite. I was actually in a funk in the morning, brooding about a work situation (coworker who's been given a new task and was good at it, but now is going overboard with newfound importance and driving everyone crazy with showing off), so I put on some levitation around noon, but that did nothing to lift my mood, went through my chores listlessly at best. Well, we had a family party invitation last nite, so just before leaving the house, I put on the tiniest bit of cougar potion, two dabs at the neck, one in the cleavage, and sprayed myself with Topper on my hair and top and headed out. Husband was very subdued, too, silent car drive. And then the magic happened. I rocked that party til 2 in the morning. From the moment I had my first glass of champagne I was the queen of the house, joking, laughing, dancing, and everybody was in a fantastic mood. At one point a cousin who is half my age and georgeous said: do you know how many women would love to be you? With your boobs and ass and that hair and that face? And later an aunt said to me: how is it you're not a model or a movie star? Before we left, my husband stood holding me on the dancefloor, hugging and kissing me and being adorably sweet. I had done nothing special clothes-wise, my hair was in a simple knot, I had no make-up, lipstick or even mascara on, and I am currently 8 pounds over my comfort zone. I felt like a hag setting out for that party, and I came home a rock star. Thank you, Topper! Think I will have a phero-free weekend, cause there is a work party monday nite. Might be I''ll add some cops to the mix... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
missdarlyncherie Posted April 27, 2014 Share Posted April 27, 2014 Yay! Yes Topper is awesome, on my must have, never live without list. I had the longest day ever yesterday and then I had to drive an hour an a half after work to bring some clothes to a friend in the hospital. Needless to say I wasn't thrilled after work when I was tired and wanted to chill at home! So I did what Maroon did and doused myself with my Dolly's Hot and Sticky boosted with Topper spray. That magic elixir had the same effect on me except I was alone in my car...upbeat and enthusiastic about a task I was dreading 20 minutes before! I layered this over Peach Sparkle which is a feel good scent to me anyway... So smelling peach champagne and Dolly's pineapple tonic with Topper?! I'm lucky I made it home last night without flying off the road into a party in another dimension!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maroon Posted April 27, 2014 Share Posted April 27, 2014 Yeah, it's really something else, and the good part is, everyone was flying with me! I guess the dancing spread it around, but even before at the barbecue we had a blast. My mum has already sent me pictures of the party: They show me quite in disarray. So the raving compliments were all thanks to Topper :-) So for tomorrow night's party I definitely want that sparkle to have a sexy hue. A little more cougar potion, and Since it has no cops (that's correct, yes?), I will add some Occo. Not sure how that will pan out. The cougar so far has not dragged younger or older men to me, there is flirting, but it's more that people want to be around me. And since it's a glamourous event, I want the extra oomph. Do any of you experienced ladies have tips for pairing cops with Topper and Cougar Potion? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
missdarlyncherie Posted April 27, 2014 Share Posted April 27, 2014 Cougar just has a little cops so personally I don't see the problem adding more. I do with Gotcha all the time which also has light cops. As far as Topper I add cops to that too when I feel like it. Sexy fun!! I was thinking of getting a bottle of Topper with cops added but I decided against it because I like to wear it with Cuddle Bunny which then I think would be over cop kill. Besides I have so many cops scents to pair it with... But I always say...cop it!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vladmyra Posted April 28, 2014 Share Posted April 28, 2014 Think I'm gonna be gettin' me some Topper! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maroon Posted April 29, 2014 Share Posted April 29, 2014 Missdarlyncherie, thanks for the encouragement! I wore a Cougar Potion, Topper, and Occo Ambrosia combo to the party. Actually wore it all day and put on some more for the party. So during the day I didnt get many effects from it, mostly cause I worked quietly in my room with a closed door; some colleagues have been slacking off and I ended up doing their work last week and was in no mood to hear their sheepish apologies. With all the others interactions were easy and sweet, stood close to my boss at one time and he made some jokes and laughed and smiled directly at me. At the party, a guy I hardly know, the husband of a colleague, walked right up to hug and kiss me, and said, oh what's that perfume, you smell so good! The rest of the evening was easy and sweet, no rock star vibe like the other nite, but it was an office party for someone going into retirement, so I had no intention of going all out party animal. I always had a group of guys about me, chatting, laughing, flirting. You know when sometimes at a party you have some nice chats, but somehow you keep ending up alone cause everyone goes off to talk to someone else at one point? Last nite I was never alone for a minute. Only the slackers that I had avoided all day were eyeing me, but never dared to approach me, which was just as well. A pox on their lazy asses! So, another good experience. Will lay off the Topper til next week end, or I will go through the bottle too fast. Might try it with Gotcha then... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
missdarlyncherie Posted April 29, 2014 Share Posted April 29, 2014 Yeah, I swear Topper is more "Pop Potion" than "Pop "Potion" to me! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WnG Posted April 29, 2014 Share Posted April 29, 2014 (edited) Ooooo ... Topper with Gotcha. I like that idea, Maroon. Might try it with Gotcha then... Has anyone tried that before now? How was it different than when using just Gotcha? Also, we all have pheros that work better for us than others. For pheros that haven't gotten the expected hits, has anyone tried them again with Topper? There are a couple of pheros where I would love to get the the effects noted for that phero and am wondering if adding Topper would kick it up to getting that effect.Of course, I'm still in the learning curve with each phero and it may just be that I need more time with finding the sweet spot. I get so excited that I tend to switch pheros quickly to see what the next one will do. (Gotta start making notes! ) Still wondering if Topper might shorten the curve for the more tricky ones. ETA: Of course, field testing that question sounds like fun times to be had!! And, my bottle's on its way!!! Edited April 29, 2014 by WnG Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
missdarlyncherie Posted April 29, 2014 Share Posted April 29, 2014 Yes me too. I wrote a post somewhere recently...can't remember where. I like my Gotcha straight up! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StacyK Posted April 30, 2014 Share Posted April 30, 2014 Yes me too. I wrote a post somewhere recently...can't remember where. I like my Gotcha straight up! We commented on it on the "Gotcha" thread. The combo feels so incongruent, like Halo said it leaves a strange feeling. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WnG Posted April 30, 2014 Share Posted April 30, 2014 Considering how Halo explainef it, I can see the incongruence. Such a great base of experience here. Thanks for sharing ! Has anyone added Topper to a phero that didn't do much for you before? Wondering if it could take a meh response from a phero to a yippeeeeeeee ? Anyone tried this yet? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NuTrix Posted April 30, 2014 Share Posted April 30, 2014 Not that PM doesn't work well on it's own, but I've used Topper to boost it's mood. To be honest, there isn't anything I haven't "Topped" at some point or another. Sometimes it's as little as 1 spray to my hair or blouse for a little lift That's how I've used it with PM. My hubs responds well to bonding blends like that one and Gotcha! But like mentioned above, if you went crazy on adding sprays it could be a step in the opposite direction of cuddling, lol, it could be too giddy for your intent since both PM and Gotcha! already have a-nol & DHEAS in them. I don't mind the playful vibe either though. A couple/few sprays have been really good with Cuddle Bunny & Sexology for me too. Lots of blends already have a-nol, so I got the single DHEAS for when I want to add some sparkle with less of the giddy/happy a-nol response. It's all part of the learning curve and finding what works for you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WnG Posted May 1, 2014 Share Posted May 1, 2014 I've seen several people mention the sparkle, but how you described it here made things click. (I love LP learning curve ah ha moments Now I think I can better determine when to use it. I foresee dheas in my next order. I like to SPARKLE !!! Lol Not that PM doesn't work well on it's own, but I've used Topper to boost it's mood. To be honest, there isn't anything I haven't "Topped" at some point or another. Sometimes it's as little as 1 spray to my hair or blouse for a little lift That's how I've used it with PM. My hubs responds well to bonding blends like that one and Gotcha! But like mentioned above, if you went crazy on adding sprays it could be a step in the opposite direction of cuddling, lol, it could be too giddy for your intent since both PM and Gotcha! already have a-nol & DHEAS in them. I don't mind the playful vibe either though. A couple/few sprays have been really good with Cuddle Bunny & Sexology for me too. Lots of blends already have a-nol, so I got the single DHEAS for when I want to add some sparkle with less of the giddy/happy a-nol response. It's all part of the learning curve and finding what works for you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JudyO Posted May 1, 2014 Share Posted May 1, 2014 Yes, and there I was just sailing away... At least that's what it felt like after I spritzed myself with Topper. Got my order in the other day and immediately applied. I got it UN because I wanted to use it with different scents. Even so, it was fine by itself, but I used it with a few swipes of Tahitian Temptress I got on a trade with BlueBear. All it took was two sprays (one to back of head and one to chest). Talk about self effects. How did I live without this stuff before! This stuff I could drink!!! Even though I didn't go out to a party, I felt like I was in that kind of mood. Nice part about it is that I can wear it with just about any of the pheros I might want to use (expect maybe B2 for bedtime). Pity that I didn't have anywhere to go to try to gauge any hits, but I was a *very* happy camper at home that day. I can how easily this is going to become a staple in my phero wardrobe! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NuTrix Posted May 1, 2014 Share Posted May 1, 2014 I've seen several people mention the sparkle, but how you described it here made things click. (I love LP learning curve ah ha moments Now I think I can better determine when to use it. I foresee dheas in my next order. I like to SPARKLE !!! Lol Happy to provide enablement, hehe... This stuff I could drink!!! I can how easily this is going to become a staple in my phero wardrobe! I've been told not to drink them, something about it not being quite the same thing ^_~ Yup. Can't imagine not having Topper as a wardrobe option Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maroon Posted May 1, 2014 Share Posted May 1, 2014 Hm, since there seems to be agreement about Topper and Gotcha not working well with each other, I might rather try it in combination with Blatant Invitation. BI is a winner for me and Topper, too. Plotting to make boss a guinea pig tomorrow... Anyone tried this combo? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
missdarlyncherie Posted May 1, 2014 Share Posted May 1, 2014 I haven't but that is one I would definitely try. Let us know how it goes! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
heather Posted May 1, 2014 Share Posted May 1, 2014 I have used a small amount of Blatant Invitation with 4 sprays of Topper many times and I found everyone around me to be in a great, friendly,chatty mood. I really liked it! I also love Topper alone,its one of my favorites. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maroon Posted May 2, 2014 Share Posted May 2, 2014 So, today I test ran BI with Topper. Very interesting. First of all, I was very alert, quick at repartee, never hunting for words like I am so often, cause I got so many things running through my head. No, I was all to the point and quick, not mulling over how I should answer, I just did. Snap! Felt very cool! I was really creative, too, had to rewrite a few things on a project, and it went like a dream. First thing that came to mind was always the perfect solution. Felt enormously confident. And even more gratifying, there's this young coworker that tends to get on my nerves a lot, cause she's just too giggly and talkative and gossipy. I usually have hard time fending her off, cause she just comes in and takes the room. She's used to getting a lot of attention and puts on this big show which can be amusing, but many times I just can't stand her, but I tolerate her and even joke and laugh with her, cause I am just simply never a bitch. I can 't pull it off, it's just not me. I want her to take a hike, but instead I play along, faking good humor. Well, today, I just was so cool and aloof she left almost as soon as she came in. I had a very straight feeling, that this was my room, that I would let nobody take over its atmosphere, that I was in charge of what happened there. I loved it! So that combo turned me into that super confident lady that I always want to be. I think others perceive me as that, but most of the times the confidence is only there cause I know I do good work. But today I had this "I'm all that"-feeling to the bone. So, more top dog that sex kitten, but a Winner! Is that maybe somewhat like the effect that Leather or Dominance have? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WnG Posted May 2, 2014 Share Posted May 2, 2014 Would TMI work with Topper? Wondering if the lower anol in TMI would be a better fit than TC's higher anol percentage? I have an outing next weekend with a friend who randomly has moments of over-thinking and thought this might help keep the flow fun and upbeat. I've had good luck with her while wearing TC, but wanted a little Topper for sparkle. (Plus, my new bottle of Topper will likely be here by then and I really want to test drive it.) Or would it be too much anol for either? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NuTrix Posted May 3, 2014 Share Posted May 3, 2014 Is that maybe somewhat like the effect that Leather or Dominance have? Dom and Leather don't have cops. Dom is minus Est, too, which I'm a fan of in the BI. I think Topper lightens the 2 (Dom & Leather) but they still have a "get down to business" vibe at work - but I think it definitely lightens things and keeps either from being too serious - on me at least Would TMI work with Topper? Wondering if the lower anol in TMI would be a better fit than TC's higher anol percentage? I have an outing next weekend with a friend who randomly has moments of over-thinking and thought this might help keep the flow fun and upbeat. I've had good luck with her while wearing TC, but wanted a little Topper for sparkle. (Plus, my new bottle of Topper will likely be here by then and I really want to test drive it.) Or would it be too much anol for either? CT has a higher concentration of a-nol in it than TMI so if you had good luck with that - and it wasn't too much a-nol all together - the TMI shouldn't be a problem. The higher concentration of b-nol in TMI may lend to those moments of over-thinking for your friend as, for me, I can become introspective while wearing it. But if you have it buffered with the Topper you should do well (I'm a bit of a molecule nerd...in case you were wondering ) I have not actually, that I can recall, ever worn Topper solo! I'm in shock a bit at this realization....I shall have to try it just so I can say I have! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WnG Posted May 3, 2014 Share Posted May 3, 2014 Dom and Leather don't have cops. Dom is minus Est, too, which I'm a fan of in the BI. I think Topper lightens the 2 (Dom & Leather) but they still have a "get down to business" vibe at work - but I think it definitely lightens things and keeps either from being too serious - on me at least CT has a higher concentration of a-nol in it than TMI so if you had good luck with that - and it wasn't too much a-nol all together - the TMI shouldn't be a problem. The higher concentration of b-nol in TMI may lend to those moments of over-thinking for your friend as, for me, I can become introspective while wearing it. But if you have it buffered with the Topper you should do well (I'm a bit of a molecule nerd...in case you were wondering ) I have not actually, that I can recall, ever worn Topper solo! I'm in shock a bit at this realization....I shall have to try it just so I can say I have! Whoo, I tried TMI tonight. Not sure I've done that before. It makes me a bit intense. So it will be really interesting to see if Topper makes it fun and chatty!!! Curious, NuTrix (aka:Marvelous Molecule Nerd) ... what about Topper and Leather? Have you tried that combo? It would seem to create a fun vibe but be good keeping things in check with people who tend to push a good thing too far - make sense? Just curious. Pheros experimenting is such fun! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NuTrix Posted May 3, 2014 Share Posted May 3, 2014 On me, the Est in the Leather blend softens it on me (Dom reads a bit more serious on me when I wear it). When I've combined Leather and Topper it seems to magnify feminine feel and buffer the none enough for the blend to feel confident and flirty. Now, in fairness, this is my experience, and this is all I can offer. I feel like there should be a disclaimer "results may vary" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maroon Posted May 6, 2014 Share Posted May 6, 2014 Anyone try Topper with LAM yet? It might be just too much a-nol, but I'm tempted Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NuTrix Posted May 6, 2014 Share Posted May 6, 2014 It is a lot of a-nol, I little too much together for me. It gave me a bit of a rush. The best it worked for me was a bit of LAM! around my belly button and a smidge on each wrist and 2 sprays of Topper to my hair. I DO like Topper A LOT with BAM! though Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
donsie Posted May 8, 2014 Share Posted May 8, 2014 (edited) I can't believe I am actually going to be getting some of this. I am so excited! I really hope it works. I haven't noticed any ill effects with anol but I'm also not sure it does a great deal for me. Eh, the only way to find out is to try it! Edited May 8, 2014 by donsie Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest cutie.pie Posted May 17, 2014 Share Posted May 17, 2014 Sadly, Topper isn't working for me. Flying potion doesn't work either, I guess I don't respond to DHEAS? because I do love a-nol... It makes me happy. Too bad, I was so excited about Topper... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NuTrix Posted May 17, 2014 Share Posted May 17, 2014 It doesn't work as in no selfies or as in no hits - or both? I know I originally got DHEAS as a single first because I thought that most everything has plenty of a-nol already But then as time went on, I broke down and got Topper and have been happily "topping" pretty much everything since! Sometimes I notice selfies and sometimes I don't, but I always see great hits from it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JudyO Posted May 17, 2014 Share Posted May 17, 2014 There are those of us that really love their a-nol, others can get a headache or OD. You may want to spray the Topper on your clothes/hair if it's too much on your skin. Some have been known to use LAM + Topper + Levitation at the same time (wouldn't know who that would be), but don't get caught driving if you do! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
donsie Posted May 17, 2014 Share Posted May 17, 2014 I tried it for the first time last night but I layered it with other pheros so I'm not sure whether I can attribute the positive effects to Topper. I wore it as the sole phero blend today and did not notice self-effects or hits. I tried three sprays so as not to overdo things but I will increase this to four the next time I wear it on its own. Is it just me or does it have a really nice smell when you first spray it? Maybe it's just the alcohol and I'm nuts! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NuTrix Posted May 17, 2014 Share Posted May 17, 2014 It's not "smelly", imo, like some of the blends are. You could get away with this one unscented I think. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ComingUpRoses Posted May 19, 2014 Share Posted May 19, 2014 Sadly, Topper isn't working for me. Flying potion doesn't work either, I guess I don't respond to DHEAS? because I do love a-nol... It makes me happy. Too bad, I was so excited about Topper... Oh no! Say it ain't so -- how many times have you tried them? Have you varied doses? Hope you get 'em to work for you. Those two blends are such winners! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maroon Posted May 20, 2014 Share Posted May 20, 2014 I guess Topper works its magic for me best when I am in a good mood to begin with. It will give me a headache when I use too much, but it will make the day a breeze if it's the right amount. It wont work when I get grumpy or upset, as I did yesterday, then the self effects just get weird. It still has an impact on others though. Had a young female colleague come in several times chatting so profusely that I got edgy and staying friendly became an effort, even though I like her a lot. Topper works best in the first half of my cycle when the hormones are flying anyway. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ComingUpRoses Posted May 20, 2014 Share Posted May 20, 2014 I guess Topper works its magic for me best when I am in a good mood to begin with. It will give me a headache when I use too much, but it will make the day a breeze if it's the right amount. It wont work when I get grumpy or upset, as I did yesterday, then the self effects just get weird. It still has an impact on others though. Had a young female colleague come in several times chatting so profusely that I got edgy and staying friendly became an effort, even though I like her a lot. Topper works best in the first half of my cycle when the hormones are flying anyway. Hmmmm, sorry to hear that dear. Use too much as in one application that particular day -- or using it too many days in a row? I hear ya' regarding friendliness being an effort at times. That's the thing about these pheros huh? They are very powerful so like you said, we really have to temper use with our daily moods and those ever so present hormones. Ugh, I'm sympathetic. I got hammered this month... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
donsie Posted May 23, 2014 Share Posted May 23, 2014 I've worn this two or three times, both over other pheros and on its own (3-5 sprays). I've not yet seen any results either on myself or others (that I can see, of course, and that's the trick) but will keep trying. Unfortunately after I placed the order for Topper I started suspecting that a-nol may not work for me as the sole or main phero, which would be a blow to the effectiveness of Topper for me. Hopefully I'll find my sweet spot soon. If I keep running into a brick wall then I've had the rather bonkers idea to try and OD on it to see how much that takes, then scale it back from there. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maroon Posted May 24, 2014 Share Posted May 24, 2014 Hmmmm, sorry to hear that dear. Use too much as in one application that particular day -- or using it too many days in a row? I hear ya' regarding friendliness being an effort at times. That's the thing about these pheros huh? They are very powerful so like you said, we really have to temper use with our daily moods and those ever so present hormones. Ugh, I'm sympathetic. I got hammered this month... Roses, it was a heavy duty load of Topper on one day. I guess it's smart to use it with good measure. I confined myself to twice a week at the moment, and do 3 sprays in the morning and maybe 2 more in the afternoon, since the effects do go away after 3 hours with me. I go without pheros on weekends and will go on a vacation just taking Occo for sexy time with hubby. Reading Halo's comment, I guess phero down time is essential for the magic to keep on working... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JudyO Posted May 24, 2014 Share Posted May 24, 2014 (edited) Anol doesn't do much for me at this point at all. Been that way for years. I firmly believe you can build up a tolerance to Pheros and anol is usually the first to go. Very rarely I'll get selfies from a really good social but it's few and far between. Oh, no, Halo, please don't tell me that -- I absolutely loooove anol! I've been trying not to wear the same phero every day, but I find that I really enjoy the anol ones because of the high I get. For a newbie like myself, what would you recommend as far as daily/weekly usage not to burn out on a phero? Edited May 24, 2014 by JudyO Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ComingUpRoses Posted May 24, 2014 Share Posted May 24, 2014 (edited) Roses, it was a heavy duty load of Topper on one day. I guess it's smart to use it with good measure. I confined myself to twice a week at the moment, and do 3 sprays in the morning and maybe 2 more in the afternoon, since the effects do go away after 3 hours with me. I go without pheros on weekends and will go on a vacation just taking Occo for sexy time with hubby. Reading Halo's comment, I guess phero down time is essential for the magic to keep on working... It sounds like you have a great handle on things Maroon. By limiting use and rotating you're sure to get the benefits and negligible side effects. I'm the same in taking a few days off each week wearing pheros. -Occo is a divine choice for the vacation plans Edited May 24, 2014 by ComingUpRoses Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest cutie.pie Posted May 24, 2014 Share Posted May 24, 2014 It doesn't work as in no selfies or as in no hits - or both? I know I originally got DHEAS as a single first because I thought that most everything has plenty of a-nol already But then as time went on, I broke down and got Topper and have been happily "topping" pretty much everything since! Sometimes I notice selfies and sometimes I don't, but I always see great hits from it. No selfies and no hits at all Oh no! Say it ain't so -- how many times have you tried them? Have you varied doses? Hope you get 'em to work for you. Those two blends are such winners! I've tried it all. It just didn't work. I'm a newbie, so sometimes I love my phero-journey and finding out what works for me, and sometimes I'm so frustrated that I don't have the knowledge you all have... But, I gave my Topper a new home and decided to play with other pheros and give Topper another try in a year or so... There are so many pheros I haven't tried yet ***The joy is in the journey!*** Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NuTrix Posted May 24, 2014 Share Posted May 24, 2014 No selfies and no hits at all Awe, that IS sad Specially NADA. ZIP. ZILCH. That' s also crazy. Things that make me go hmm... WELL! I saw that you re-homed and there are still plenty of wonderful things to try! There's bound to be something that is just for you - waiting to be discovered Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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