Shenaynay on Martin way back in the day used to say bitch please all the time, and that's when I adopted it into my everyday vernacular. My mom wasn't amused.
Being called zaftig or curvy isn't offensive (though pillowy is pushing it for me, personally). I have no doubt at all that I am sexy as hell! Presuming that such women have a particular smell-good of bad-wafting from their curves is.