Dolly

9 hours ago, halo0073 said:

My very first and worst OD was with Cougar and that was in Sparkle Fuschia not even full strength. People LOVED me though. I just made myself super super sick. Also it might have had something to do with the scent. I cannot stand the scent of Scented Cougar. It’s super stabby to me and burns my nose and hurts my brain. But it does sound dosage related whether it be phero, scent or both. Also personally I think these ladies sound like assholes. I totally get trying to befriend them for your daughter’s sake but I wouldn’t get my hopes way up. Sounds like they are going to be cliquey no matter what.

True.  Some people are just assholes.

I LOOOOOOVE the scent of scented Cougar, AFTER 20-30 minutes.  My skin amps grapefruit, so until it wears a bit, I am screamingly, painfully.......HI I'M GRAPEFRUIT!  But after it calms down, it is beautiful on me.  I have had others verify that I don't just develop a tolerance or something.  It does calm WAY DOWN on me. It is interesting to me how everyone's skin chemistry changes/absorbs/blooms different notes.

It could very well be the Est.  Continue working with straight Dominance (like in Mistress Mine).  It may be more your signature.

Try Leather.  I am very familiar with the product you mention, and the Leather blend gives me better, more consistent results than TAL ever did.

9 minutes ago, HipGrrrl said:

Most of my pheros are in oil. Some I have both in Spray and oil.

 

UN-TH is oil only in the pherotine dropper.  I do have UN-OW in oil (dropper) and 60/40 spray.  MOST of my UN pheros are in the pherotine droppers (with the exception of UNStone Cougar (spray 60/40), UNCuddle Bunny (oil roller) and UN-LFM (oil roller and 60/40 spray). 

 

If they’re an UN, I generally apply a perfume and add the phero on top.  Typically I want the spray for hair (if not cops heavy) and roller on body.

 

In the above Cougar Potion extravaganza (scented), I used oil and spray.  I not only recall being heavy handed but I smelled like it too, lol.

 

Thank you, ladies!

Yes, TH is not very smelly, so you can apply a perfume and then add the phero on top.  That will help the phero get out there.  The oils will take a warmer environment in order to diffuse, but sprays like Cougar and OW would diffuse well when sprayed to hair (especially if you're a hair flipper like me). Sprays will generally diffuse faster than the oils, so keep that in mind when you are applying.

12 minutes ago, HipGrrrl said:

Thank you @StacyK and @Dolly.   I’ll definitely retry Treasured Hearts...OW has been great for me in other situations, so if TH doesn’t give me what I’m looking for, I’ll try that later.  I guess if all else fails I can wear the Balm Bomb for me so I end up giving fewer f*cks, lol.

 

I was wearing way too much in any case.  No cops except what may or may not be in Cougar Potion.

Cougar has just a splash of cops, so it is "public-friendly".  But you can "ghost" with any phero if you wear too much.  If people start trying to get away from you, or act like you don't exist......two of the big signs.

@HipGrrrl  how have you been wearing the Treasured Hearts?  Have you been using it already added to a scent?  Or have you been wearing it covered with another scent?  If separate, is the phero in oil roll-on or spray?  What medium is the scent in?  May be able to troubleshoot this.  It may be an issue of diffusion.

I don't wear cops around other gatherings of mostly women, in general, especially if there are men nearby (UNLESS I am with my man and giving off that very obviously attached vibe......like, "I don't want your man, I have one of my own that I am happy with").  Subconsciously, they may see you as competition. I don't think I have had that happen with Cougar, though.  I would have to check my notes. If it did, it had to have been a long time ago..  I think it is possible that you were way over the top on the dosage.

I would try to work with the TH or OW with those women, and maybe work on the dosage.  Stick with one for a few times though.  Let them get to know your phero signature.  Switching up often can potentially cause confusion.  TH has been my fave with "bristly" women.  Start slow and work your way up.  TH is a wonder blend as for creating that "sorority sister", spread-the-love vibe.  But you have to find the right dosage. 

BAM is beta-adrostenol and cops.  In contrast to LAM which is Alpha-adrostenol and cops.  Alpha-nol is more of a happy vibe while Beta-nol is more of the bonding, tell-me-all-your-secrets vibe.  BAM backfired on me ONCE when I was with a man who didn't feel comfortable sharing his feelings, but that was the only negative reaction I had from it.  I like the uplifting effect from LAM better, as a personal preference.

1 hour ago, Eggers said:

 

 

If you're feeling run down from a lack of sleep, have no food in your belly, have had a lot of coffee, AND start drinking while wearing pheros, you might explode.   Kidding. 

 

 

This made me LOL, Eggs......truth in what you wrote though!  It is more apparent if you are a heavy responder as I am.  As I always tell my son......"Ask me how I know!"

My new man LOVES the scent of this.  Resins always do bloom BEAUTIFULLY on me, and this is no exception.  As for the pheros, they did their job, as Sexpionage generally does.  Turns up the heat from normal to BROIL in no time flat!

I do so love this one!  I wore it the last time I took my  mother to the doctor, and all of the people we came into contact with were happy and smiling.  The scent is happy in and of itself, not to mention the full-strength load of OW.

14 minutes ago, HipGrrrl said:

@Dolly Thanks for the reminder!

👍  Wow, that is a little thumbs up!  LOLOL  Anytime, HipGrrrl

Well, OCCO is a raging a$$load of cops........30 drops per bottle.  Cops are what give the men the signal that you are ready for sex.  Men with low social filters can react badly.

I personally don't use Cuddle Bunny, my previous man had bad reactions to large amounts of Est.  But I do know that the more complex blends vary the reactions vs cops alone.

I do use Leather and BI, which both have Est......I also use Dominance a lot and Open Windows, Cougar, or Treasured Hearts, depending on the situation.  Have used each with and without cops, but have been using for LOTS of years and TRY to limit my mega-cop usage to times with my man.  I say TRY because sometimes accidents happen....LOL

1 hour ago, HipGrrrl said:

Just got my Gotcha in oil and spray.  Layered with OCCO White in oil, trying to be judicious with all three and found myself giggling madly  to myself over some remarkably obscene lyrics playing in my car.  Just about became BFFs with a cashier at TJMax (more mad giggling from both of us about Keto creamer of all things) and then got very abruptly  invited to lunch by the cop on duty outside one of our grocery stores (I think it’s because panhandlers abound here).  He was not remotely interested in my presence until I walked past and he got enveloped in my cloud, lol.

 

Gotcha!!

Once again, please be careful!  Copulin loads like that (OCCO) in public when you are out and about without your man can be dangerous. Be observant of who is around you, and their reactions.  You are putting out a signal that you are ready to have sex. That is what copulins are for.  Have fun with the pheros, but please do it safely!

11 minutes ago, HipGrrrl said:

CB is amazing when it comes to male attention. I generally wear it with Gossamer Threads because I adore the scent so, but wearing the UN gets me the exact same effects.  Men are freakishly gobsmacked by my mere existence.  Spouse is a ginormous and built dude but his generally (and purposefully, lol) intimidating presence doesn’t even cause a blip on the radar of my wowed male CB fans.  I try to be cognizant of where I choose to wear it after causing some totally unintentional drama.  I’ve found that low-filter alcoholic dudes in pool halls are EXTREMELY susceptible, lol. 

This would be because CB is loaded with cops.  Not normally something I would suggest wearing in public UNLESS you are with your man (and especially since you are new to pheros).  Cops give off the vibe that you are ready for sex.  You could attract some VERY unwanted attention.  Low-filter guys exist everywhere.  Just FYI.

I loved Raven's Secret Weapon, and this one is pretty close on me.  I am with Bella.....I didn't find anything horrifying about it when wet, and it is absolutely GORGEOUS when dry.  I probably will add more cops......because that's how I roll.....LOL

Very glad I bought a couple of bottles unsniffed.....although my mother is rolling her eyes when she sees more perfume come into the house......LOLOL......I DO have about 150 bottles at last count, I think.  My boxes of perfumes are currently stored under her bed.....LOL.  She thinks I need a 12-step-program. 

Testing for scent today and not necessarily phero effects, because I am home sick with a summer cold or something....thankfully, the sudafed opened my sinuses so I CAN BREATHE!  

Wet, it is sexy,  I get mostly chocolate and coffee.  As it dries down I start getting whiffs of the amber and leather......this one is not so much an "in your face" scent, but more of a "who smells so good" scent.  Very sexy, with some cops, could be lethal.

I would go with SWS......you come off as capable without being over-bearing.

I ordered this one and can't wait to receive it.  Love the DOM and it loves me.  My new man loves the dark scents on me, also.  Hopefully this will be a winner.

I just ordered a couple of bottles of this unsniffed.......have had my head buried for awhile, and treating myself to some post-tax-season goodies.  I LOVED Raven's Secret Weapon, and since the new man LOVES BI, this was really a no-brainer.  Will let you know how well I like it after I get it!

18 hours ago, Vicki Lee said:

Aw @Dolly I’m so sorry it had to be like that. I know you don’t know me, but I feel like I know you a bit from reading your wonderful informative threads and posts. I wish you a prosperous healthy new realtionship with your new man! ?

Thanks hun! Going very well thus far!

On 8/29/2018 at 1:40 PM, colorfulaura said:

In that case maybe the EST-heavy blends could serve as a test for somebody. Maybe the "backfire" is a blessing in disguise, in some circumstances. 

Yes, we ended up splitting up because I moved cross-country to take care of my mother, and decided to end the relationship because he needs to be in that area for his kids (even though they are grown, they still need him), and because our relationship was also going downhill in general.

I am with a new man now, and testing is "interesting".......will be posting in my journal soon.

DOM gives me that kick in the butt when I need it.

Not to mention that McClintock has been entirely discredited.

This is junk science drivel.

You would do better, Data Dragon, treating women with care and respect than treating them like a science experiment. Good luck.

And that is not only to Potion Master but to Eastwood as well......

They look great! Fabulous job Mara and elves!

I like PCMP in oil, personally. Never did try the Big Easy.