Dolly

True. Some people are just assholes. I LOOOOOOVE the scent of scented Cougar, AFTER 20-30 minutes. My skin amps grapefruit, so until it wears a bit, I am screamingly, painfully.......HI I'M GRAPEFRUIT! But after it calms down, it is beautiful on me. I have had others verify that I don't just develop a tolerance or something. It does calm WAY DOWN on me. It is interesting to me how everyone's skin chemistry changes/absorbs/blooms different notes.

It could very well be the Est. Continue working with straight Dominance (like in Mistress Mine). It may be more your signature.

Try Leather. I am very familiar with the product you mention, and the Leather blend gives me better, more consistent results than TAL ever did.

Yes, TH is not very smelly, so you can apply a perfume and then add the phero on top. That will help the phero get out there. The oils will take a warmer environment in order to diffuse, but sprays like Cougar and OW would diffuse well when sprayed to hair (especially if you're a hair flipper like me). Sprays will generally diffuse faster than the oils, so keep that in mind when you are applying.

Cougar has just a splash of cops, so it is "public-friendly". But you can "ghost" with any phero if you wear too much. If people start trying to get away from you, or act like you don't exist......two of the big signs. @HipGrrrl how have you been wearing the Treasured Hearts? Have you been using it already added to a scent? Or have you been wearing it covered with another scent? If separate, is the phero in oil roll-on or spray? What medium is the scent in? May be able to troubleshoot this. It may be an issue of diffusion.

I don't wear cops around other gatherings of mostly women, in general, especially if there are men nearby (UNLESS I am with my man and giving off that very obviously attached vibe......like, "I don't want your man, I have one of my own that I am happy with"). Subconsciously, they may see you as competition. I don't think I have had that happen with Cougar, though. I would have to check my notes. If it did, it had to have been a long time ago.. I think it is possible that you were way over the top on the dosage. I would try to work with the TH or OW with those women, and maybe work on the dosage. Stick with one for a few times though. Let them get to know your phero signature. Switching up often can potentially cause confusion. TH has been my fave with "bristly" women. Start slow and work your way up. TH is a wonder blend as for creating that "sorority sister", spread-the-love vibe. But you have to find the right dosage.

BAM is beta-adrostenol and cops. In contrast to LAM which is Alpha-adrostenol and cops. Alpha-nol is more of a happy vibe while Beta-nol is more of the bonding, tell-me-all-your-secrets vibe. BAM backfired on me ONCE when I was with a man who didn't feel comfortable sharing his feelings, but that was the only negative reaction I had from it. I like the uplifting effect from LAM better, as a personal preference.

This made me LOL, Eggs......truth in what you wrote though! It is more apparent if you are a heavy responder as I am. As I always tell my son......"Ask me how I know!"

My new man LOVES the scent of this. Resins always do bloom BEAUTIFULLY on me, and this is no exception. As for the pheros, they did their job, as Sexpionage generally does. Turns up the heat from normal to BROIL in no time flat!

I do so love this one! I wore it the last time I took my mother to the doctor, and all of the people we came into contact with were happy and smiling. The scent is happy in and of itself, not to mention the full-strength load of OW.

👍 Wow, that is a little thumbs up! LOLOL Anytime, HipGrrrl

Well, OCCO is a raging a$$load of cops........30 drops per bottle. Cops are what give the men the signal that you are ready for sex. Men with low social filters can react badly. I personally don't use Cuddle Bunny, my previous man had bad reactions to large amounts of Est. But I do know that the more complex blends vary the reactions vs cops alone. I do use Leather and BI, which both have Est......I also use Dominance a lot and Open Windows, Cougar, or Treasured Hearts, depending on the situation. Have used each with and without cops, but have been using for LOTS of years and TRY to limit my mega-cop usage to times with my man. I say TRY because sometimes accidents happen....LOL

Once again, please be careful! Copulin loads like that (OCCO) in public when you are out and about without your man can be dangerous. Be observant of who is around you, and their reactions. You are putting out a signal that you are ready to have sex. That is what copulins are for. Have fun with the pheros, but please do it safely!

This would be because CB is loaded with cops. Not normally something I would suggest wearing in public UNLESS you are with your man (and especially since you are new to pheros). Cops give off the vibe that you are ready for sex. You could attract some VERY unwanted attention. Low-filter guys exist everywhere. Just FYI.

I loved Raven's Secret Weapon, and this one is pretty close on me. I am with Bella.....I didn't find anything horrifying about it when wet, and it is absolutely GORGEOUS when dry. I probably will add more cops......because that's how I roll.....LOL Very glad I bought a couple of bottles unsniffed.....although my mother is rolling her eyes when she sees more perfume come into the house......LOLOL......I DO have about 150 bottles at last count, I think. My boxes of perfumes are currently stored under her bed.....LOL. She thinks I need a 12-step-program.

Testing for scent today and not necessarily phero effects, because I am home sick with a summer cold or something....thankfully, the sudafed opened my sinuses so I CAN BREATHE! Wet, it is sexy, I get mostly chocolate and coffee. As it dries down I start getting whiffs of the amber and leather......this one is not so much an "in your face" scent, but more of a "who smells so good" scent. Very sexy, with some cops, could be lethal.

I would go with SWS......you come off as capable without being over-bearing.

I ordered this one and can't wait to receive it. Love the DOM and it loves me. My new man loves the dark scents on me, also. Hopefully this will be a winner.

I just ordered a couple of bottles of this unsniffed.......have had my head buried for awhile, and treating myself to some post-tax-season goodies. I LOVED Raven's Secret Weapon, and since the new man LOVES BI, this was really a no-brainer. Will let you know how well I like it after I get it!

Thanks hun! Going very well thus far!

Yes, we ended up splitting up because I moved cross-country to take care of my mother, and decided to end the relationship because he needs to be in that area for his kids (even though they are grown, they still need him), and because our relationship was also going downhill in general. I am with a new man now, and testing is "interesting".......will be posting in my journal soon.

DOM gives me that kick in the butt when I need it.

And that is not only to Potion Master but to Eastwood as well......

They look great! Fabulous job Mara and elves!

I like PCMP in oil, personally. Never did try the Big Easy.