StacyK

19 hours ago, HipGrrrl said:

My 18 year old has an interview on Friday!  This’ll be her first job and she’s super nervous.  She’s a bit of a late bloomer, not terribly social adept and gets totally strung out when stressed. 

 

I don't have a clue if the interviewer will be young, old, male or female.

 

I thought I’d see if I couldn’t help her out with a tiny phero dose.  Anyone have any suggestions?  

My daughter is very similar. OW sounds good. Let us know what happens. 

52 minutes ago, HipGrrrl said:

I was whining on the scented Cougar Potion thread about some women I'm trying to make friends with for my kid's sake who aren't exactly cooperating, lol.  Thanks to @StacyK, @Eggers, @Eastwood22 (and maybe more - forgive me for not recalling), I tried UN Treasured Hearts to see if that would open them up to me a little.  I layer it with Virgin Unisexy.

 

We had a lunch at school today with the girls and two of the moms were there.  I was kinda feeling like the jury was still totally out on TH as we left, but the longer I think about it, the more positive our encounter seems.  Not to say that they were my total BFFs by any means, but 1) we actually chitchatted together.  I wasn't left on the periphery as I can be at times AND I got an invite to go with them and the girls to a beach afternoon this weekend.  That last is a BIG one.  They have outings often and while my child gets included in some of them, I never, ever have been.  So, we'll see how that goes, lol.  Anyway, I think there was progress today.  So, thank you all so very much!!

 

On a more fun note, before the lunch but after TH application, I ran into Target to return some things/pick up some things and I got the woman in the return lane who is always C-R-A-N-K-Y.  She gets all picky about returns, she never smiles and is, apparently, terribly inconvenienced by doing what she does.  She started out the same ol', same ol' grumpy, aggravated attitude.  But THEN, she totally got all friendly and actually wished me a "...wonderful day!".  I have been through this lady's line 1000x and she has NEVER done this..  I ran around, grabbed what I needed to pick up, went through another line and that cashier (different, thank you God), said something cute and funny, so I giggled and said something cute and funny so we giggled and giggled.   The customer behind me in line then grabbed my hand to look at my wedding ring and was gushing over it.  I told her I designed it and we both have our heads down examining said ring as she holds my hand 🙂.  We started talking about the lost wax process and that I have a metalsmithing degree and how much we love diamonds and jewelry, etc.  Then she noticed my other ring - here we go again, lol.  And, she told me how my jewelry is so gorgeous and it makes sense because I'm so gorgeous, etc.  I've had people notice my ring before for sure, but this interaction was so out there in terms of enthusiasm, bubbly friendliness plus totally upbeat vibes.  It was super cute and fabulously flattering.  We (cashier, me, the ring woman AND the woman behind her) were all laughing and joking together like someone injected us with happy juice.  Totally over the top.

I would guess TH may have nudged some of that. The "moms" in particular.

For me, socially, TH hits are subtle. So you sometimes "get it" after the fact, when you look back. But, you can get that big, obvious hit too. For myself, It took awhile to get that sweet spot (posted In TH phero reviews).

The reaction you got al la moms is similliar to some I have experienced. I don't get any selifies from TH and I am careful with application because it can give me a headache. But, it works so freaking well on others that I have purchased quite a bit over the years.

The results are consistent. I really do see it as "the old bitch tamer". That's why I felt it could help out after the "Cougar" mishap.   

I definately think you should invest in an Un bottle. 

If you want to mix it up. You could try OW or Teddy BB too. But, that slight bond you got there is TH all the way. Play with it for awhile.

On 3/14/2018 at 1:35 AM, Eastwood22 said:

Warning....

 

So, after Stacy mentioned the TH & cops combo, I decided I'd try it later that day. And then it was maybe 20 minutes later and I was ready enough, having showered and I was getting ready for the 2nd phase of my day. My man was still mostly asleep in the bed, I was by my vanity. First I sprayed maybe 4 or 5 spritzes of TH, and then maybe 1/3 of a trial vial of Animal Crackers on my wrists and a little on my neck to cover it, and then some OCCO White between the girls.

 

He rolled over, "Ummm, you smell good, what's that?"

"Animal Crackers."

"Yeah, you are. Come here and let me smell you."

"No, you can't, it's not dry yet."

"Come here! I want to smell you!"

"Fine, but no touching."

"Um, that's good," smelling my wrists. "What's that? It's different here," trying to stick his face between my boobs.

"I said no touching, you have to wait, it's not even dry yet. NO TOUCHING."

"What are you doing to me? It smells so good, it's kind of turning me on..."

 

....

 

Later, after the poor guy has OCCO White all over him, "Is this going on the forum?"

"Of course not, honey, our sex life is private."

He says, "It's not like they'll believe you anyway. They'll be like, 'Oh sure, your man got turned on by your perfume. Because men are never horny in the morning when they first wake up. Sure it was the Animal Crackers.' "

 

Now, I put a bit of OCCO White (or Ambrosia now) or BBM or Odalisque between the girls almost everyday at some point, so it was not just the cops, it was the big whiff of TH that hit him first. He's a cuddly/connection guy. I've been having great results with Liebchen, too. So good that I haven't even taken the plastic off my new bottle of Luxurious w/ Blatant Invitation yet, which isn't like me at all. I'm not big on waiting.

Lol. I guess he would have a stronger reaction if he were just getting up. 

Just a sex note. #1 I generally don't mess with perfection. Meaning I'm not a big blend mixer. But, If you like TH + Cops try TH + just a little BAM. It's almost like a new phero.

It's fun to switch out the dynamic a bit. Especially on a long term couple and you have been using the same phero for an extended time.

Out of the trial, this is straightforward powdery with a dollop of white floral on top. 

On my skin, this reminds me of the powder that accompanies a perfume line at grand, polished department store counter. The type that comes in that big round container. My grandmother always had one on hand. It wasn't Este Lauder, probably an older more obscure brand. I'm drawing a blank. 

Its pretty tactile, like that powder, there's a silky feel to it. 

A little goes a long way. There is that piercing quality to it, as this type is wont to do.

I can just imagine Betty Draper in the early sixties, dusting that big puff on. 

I get vintage in a mid century type way. 

I know it should be a classically woven, bonfire woods/floral.

Nothing I read as smoke yet.

I will test again. Those attars have to spike up over time. 

10 hours ago, Eastwood22 said:

Exactly. I went FB and it's only been here half a day, so I will let it sit for the better part of a week. BUT I did open the trial and put just a dab on the back of my hand, and it reminded me of my initial excitement over Cowabunga Gazunga last summer. I'm really looking forward to Enivrant blossoming!

I like Gazunga so much more now that it has aged. There was a note there, maybe the kumquat, that amped early on. Last time I wore it, a young guy followed me around the book store then after sometime, complemented me. Lol

Mara know's how to do summer scents. 

On my skin this is languid and sleek to me. More so than some of the more "bouncy" fruity summer scents.

IMO. I get more, I'm sitting on a pricey teak patio chair with a rum & pineapple juice. 

I love "aloe". A discovery I made here. It plays watery & cool w/ a touch of clean on me. I think that balances out the fruits.

I get cool and smooth with a with a spark of fun. 

I have been curious about this one. When testing I didn't double check the notes. I just want to get what comes at me.

On my skin this is quite different than sniffing the trial.

I get a summertime warm grassey scent, with something very sultry in the air. Aja.

 The fruit is subtle, unripened, green with a touch of grounded earthyness (resin). 

Very sensual, au naturel.

Its at its best after well dried down. 

The warm musk is devine weaving through the scent. Ooh lala.. 

This is the type of LPMP fragrance I love. So totally unique.

Full bottle. 

*wow. I did not know this contained cops! I dont smell them, yet. 

@Potion Master 10 drops in this? 

Well done.

Holy musky smutty in the long... dry down. 

Well hello sailor.

This is a beautiful summer skin scent.

The musk is soft and delicate on my skin. The notes are blended tightly swimming around in the musk. The pineapple pops up brightly upon application. For the first 20 mins it hovers above the other notes. I always love a pretty pineapple. 

In the longer drydown all the notes meld and cling to my skin. The teak is smooth and pretty. One of my favorite wood notes. 

The scent is cool and smooth. 

A big summer ahhh.

19 hours ago, HipGrrrl said:

Lol - not blond but long hottie hair.  Sadly, my sisters got all the boobage in my family as well.  I’m pretty dry, but with a big smile, lol. People generally think I am clever and hilarious or look at me totally blankly when I’m being funny...and I come from a family where sarcastic wit was always rewarded.  My grandmother was one of the most hilarious people ever, but Jesus, she was mean.  It was never fun to be on the wrong side of her wit. That being said, I’m a pretty gentle person and am almost always told how nice I am.  I also don’t talk sh*t about people but these women do 🙄.

Boobage is a pain. It only wants to move south as time goes on. Sometimes East & West too. I have been wanting little disco boobies lately. You know the type. You can wear a slinky top with a bit of a drop neck. No bra, no problem. Oh well.  

Also IDK but It seems like women with smaller chests have less arm fat too. Maybe?

15 hours ago, Eastwood22 said:

Seems reasonable to me! My man has several blends with PM, but I think Year One is my only one.

My B2 Uni is almost gone. That was during my B2 addiction phase. Its the most powerful stress quasher (new word!) 

PM is great for relationships, old and new. But, that special magic it works on an established relationship is quite a thing to see. Its also a fun social.

1 minute ago, HipGrrrl said:

Lol - not blond but long hottie hair.  Sadly, my sisters got all the boobage in my family as well.  I’m pretty dry, but with a big smile, lol. People generally think I am clever and hilarious or look at me totally blankly when I’m being funny...and I come from a family where sarcastic wit was always rewarded.  My grandmother was one of the most hilarious people ever, but Jesus, she was mean.  It was never fun to be on the wrong side of her wit. That being said, I’m a pretty gentle person and am almost always told how nice I am.  I also don’t talk sh*t about people but these women do 🙄.

Of course they do. That's par for the course. Lol

@Eastwood22 yes. That was the deal point system and all. The binder, this group was bigger it had around for sometime, was a 6 month to 1 year commitment. There's always that one (or 2) person in the group. But that was not the only reason. I just didn't feel the commitment fit well for myself. I didnt want to be one of those other people. 

Yes.  The binder was a pain. Its not for someone with ADHD, IMO. Not for me at least. 

1 hour ago, Snoopyace said:

 

I love B2.2 and find it works amazingly well on my bride!  I could totally see Unisexy working for that.

I have the B2 Unisexy. Love. I want a PM too.

1 hour ago, HipGrrrl said:

Lolol - oh so true @StacyK 😀.

I know, right

On 3/29/2019 at 4:58 PM, Potion Master said:

This is one of our hottest scents, both online and in the shop, so I have decided to make it semi-permanent. Meaning, I will make it whenever I have the ingredients and try to keep it in stock. I just made a new batch in both phero'd and virgin forms.

 

There's been a lot of peeps asking for Bad Boy lately, wanting to pair it with Love God. I do not have the ingredients to remake Bad Boy at the moment, and strongly suggest Unisexy instead - it has a similar vibe and if you like one you will surely like the other! FYI @Snoopyace 

Hell YES!

On 4/6/2019 at 6:10 PM, Snoopyace said:

Just got my parcel today containing Unisexy!  Okay, I have to say that first, I might have a bit of a challenge convincing some of the guys that they should give this a try, only because it really reads as completely unisex (or Unisexy) on my skin.  A lot of guys seem to be afraid of anything that might almost potentially in some alternate universe be defined as feminine.  *insert eye roll here*  🙄  I can see where in some ways this is a bit like Bad Boy but it has the maple note and is lacking the leather.  IF I can get the guys to trust me enough to try this around a woman I think they'll be alright with it..

 

They should. Women will love it. Men really must stop trying to assume they know what we like. Clearly they DON'T, otherwise Drakkar Noir would never have been invented. 

On 4/15/2019 at 6:55 AM, halo0073 said:

It’s too bad that so many guys have that hang up. I know a lot of women REALLY dig that truly unisex skin scent vibe. It’s my absolute favorite on my man. He wears that and I’m a sure thing. Lol. Tell them that and see if that helps convince them.

IKR? Who does not like a warm, soft comfortable scent?

10 minutes ago, HipGrrrl said:

I only have a sample of this this - and I love the scent. 

 

I've been a little worried about wearing this one because it isn't really congruent with who I am - well, I can be bad for sure, but usually in a sweet more gentle kind of way, lol.  I decided I'd take it for a test drive to the gym to see if it wouldn't help my attitude about working out.  I do it, but I hate it ☺️.  It did indeed seem to help me push through harder and be more willing to go longer!  I felt like my normal inner dialog of "Omg, do I really have to do 30 more reps?  I mean, it's Monday.  I could make it up Wednesday, etc., etc." was quite muted which was a nice change...BUT there is something going on here that is not at all like me and I don't like it.  I went to get some paper towels and the dispenser wasn't working.  I WAS SO IRRITATED over the broken paper towel dispenser!  Like, I wanted to growl at the damn thing and everyone who was in the vicinity. 

 

Letting it sit for a while (and now quite petrified of ever trying my Dom sample, lol), I went ahead and tried it again. Noooo.  Gym work ethic was awesome!!  Love that part with all of my heart.  Then a woman started talking to me, asking me about a machine - apparently Bad Girl makes me look like I know what I'm doing - and I was pretty freaking livid that she dared interrupt me and ask me stupid questions when I was CLEARLY BUSY.  This is not at all ever not remotely in anyway shape or form who I am.  I was so freaked out about how I felt that I could barely answer her. 

 

So.  Bad Girl makes me a pretty bad girl, lol.  And not in a good way.

Oh yes. "Dominance" is my work out buddy. Gets me going.

Leather (part Dom part EST) works too. I have used it in a pinch. I put a post on the Un Dom thread way back about its super workout benefits. 

On 5/25/2019 at 5:18 PM, anchoredinopulence said:

Let's start The BAM Weirdos Club! Ha! I had difficulty with Sexology too. And sadly LFM and LFN which I so desperately want to love. I get great hits with them but I wind up sad and cranky - maybe I'm overdoing it even with the tiny dabs I'm using. I loved your highly entertaining posts over in the LFM thread! 😄I'm gonna keep experimenting on safe days...

I'm in. I love me some BAM. I feel so warm and   with it.

Solo or with PM. I'm in. 

IDK if it helps. I hit the Sexology sweet spot. Back with "Indecent Exposure" I loved the scent and with a bit of a "fuck it" air, I wore it everywhere. The scent was so easy to transition from work a stuff to night. The light dose in the day was a circle around my belly button smooshed and dried down. Night was a 1" stripe between wrists and a full lollipop starting in clevage and rounding the belly smooshed. 

Enhanced oil doses. 

The hits are very different than CB. Warm, slow, soft, bondy. Mellow/sexual.

IMO, The other scent, X Appeal is more lusty. Driven by that warm sexy scent. As LV said, very "undercover ho". Perfect description. 

I've never used it UN.

@HipGrrrl  "Thankfully, the girls all really like me and like to be at our house.  Iactually often take them all back to my house ontumbling lesson day after school - which has been helpful for the moms and makes my kid happy."

Yes, I used to do that too. I didn't mind having kids over and everyone was happy.

Also, a good way to interact with each parent one on one and sus them out fast.

Becareful with the babysitting thing. That's a slippery slope. We had a school/neighborhood book. Sort of a co-op babysitting exchange thing. It worked for some. It rapidly moved from convienice to hassled stress for me. I backed out slowly. But, was always glad to help out those we interacted with if available. Plus, the pick up/ having the kids over made up for it. They actually wanted ne to be the keeper of the "book" a huge binder with family info etc which had been in the the neighborhood for 15 years then. I guess I seemed like the right choice, my friend group was a diverse range of personalities. ie. some did not like others bla bla.. and knowing me through having the kids over etc. But, no. It did not work for a few reasons and I got out fast 

What dose do you use for the TH dropper? 

If you like TH I definately recomend a spray as Eastwood mentioned. Starting out with an enhanced scent, if you like the fragrance, is a great way to go. I have it in a couple of enhanced. But, for economic purposes I have an Un Spray. My dose for an *UN SPRAY is usally 1 spray (start at 1) never more than 2. Everyone has their own sweet spot. But, the best advise is to start out easy. 

When you vary from scented to UN you have to change your dose, the UN is stronger 1000mcg. Enhanced is 333mcg. 

With my son I was at the same age level or just a few years younger than most of the other moms. With my daughter I was usally one of the slightly older moms. But, honestly the age was not the total factor in who I was BFF with at the time. I had so many other things to focus on. It really didn't come up for me.

Sounds like you take care of yourself, good for you. Health = feeling good. 

* just a tip I turn my face away and hold breath when I spray. So I don't inhale the dose. I got raging headaches from TH and Cougar because I inhaled w/o thinking. 😵 

Hope to see your reviews when you get a chance to test. 

On 2/5/2019 at 12:59 PM, halo0073 said:

I’m being very careful with MM since Dom flips my bitch switch in a really huge major way. I want to SLATHER it everywhere, but I’m scurred. So I have just done a little drop on my hand so I can wash it off if I start feeling crazy. I’m purposely testing while I’m alone in the middle of the day. Holy shit though does it ever smell amazing. I love a good dark coffee scent but usually they have a resin or something I don’t like in them as well. Not Mistress Mine! I like all the notes! The coffee and espresso are dark and rich and true. The leather is a great compliment. Leather can overwhelm a scent pretty quickly on me often but here the other dark notes hold it in check. The honey is barely there for me just as it should be, just enough to add to the sexiness but it doesn’t overwhelm. The chocolate and amber are intermingled with the dark rich coffee so that they add to the depth and warmness of the scent but in no way do they take away anything from the coffee. The Musk is more of a feeling than something I can actively pick out, and the feeling is languid sex appeal. This does soften a bit over the dry down but it still always manages to feel dark and smoldering and rich and quintessentially sexy the whole time. If you like coffee scents even nominally then you must have Mistress Mine.

I panic ordered this the other day. Sorry Mara. But, the cart sacred me. Halo likes a dark scent! I have to have that. 

Plus, the descriptions. Sounds like BCM's softer sister.

On 3/3/2019 at 5:19 PM, johnsonlisa90012 said:

My question is....I get we all love the smell because we all love Mara’s creations.  But do attractive men you are scoping think this is a sexy smell?  I just can’t associate a coffee smell with a sexy smell, so I am waffling on this.  Thoughts please!

Some men will like it, some it may not matter. I don't think tbe scent of coffee will put men off sexually. Not much does. 

15 years ago I would not have thought of a coffee sent as sexy. But, in the last decade or so, I have tested some very sensual coffee scents. LP and off ranch. Mara's made some glorious coffee's. 

Titillating Temptress, LP Latte, Black Cat Mojo. Its not the single note alone, its the whole scent. It could also be an option for people who'd like a darker scent/mood but for whom resins don't work. 

But, who knows what someone else will like. It may not be the go to note for most people when you think of a sexy scent. But, I love it in the right perfume. 

6 hours ago, halo0073 said:

My very first and worst OD was with Cougar and that was in Sparkle Fuschia not even full strength. People LOVED me though. I just made myself super super sick. Also it might have had something to do with the scent. I cannot stand the scent of Scented Cougar. It’s super stabby to me and burns my nose and hurts my brain. But it does sound dosage related whether it be phero, scent or both. Also personally I think these ladies sound like assholes. I totally get trying to befriend them for your daughter’s sake but I wouldn’t get my hopes way up. Sounds like they are going to be cliquey no matter what.

Oh Halo! You just made the juice jump right through my nose. I didn't expect that. LMAO!!

Based on my experiences in that area (in the past now). Um YEA. But, I was usally lucky. There's always that one other mom more like you. Hopefully @HipGrrrl 's daughter with be friends with her kid.

That's why I zoned right in on TH. Let the old bitch tamer earn her keep. It's helped me deal many times.

The Lavender in this never sat well with me. It off on my skin. I think it was camphor? But in a different way. Anyway, I did list it once on my trade, then removed it and continued to dab. Thats the power of GOTCHA. 

1 hour ago, HipGrrrl said:

Thank you @StacyK and @Dolly.   I’ll definitely retry Treasured Hearts...OW has been great for me in other situations, so if TH doesn’t give me what I’m looking for, I’ll try that later.  I guess if all else fails I can wear the Balm Bomb for me so I end up giving fewer f*cks, lol.

 

I was wearing way too much in any case.  No cops except what may or may not be in Cougar Potion.

Just remember to start out easy, note how much you wear. Work your way up from there. It may take a couple of tries or you might get lucky and hit that sweet spot right away. Like Dolly said, if you post about what medium your TH is in, Unscented? spray? Oil? You could get a few recommendations here.

TH is great to help the friendship bond/smooth interactions with other females. 

OW is always good to have.

4 hours ago, HipGrrrl said:

Oh, lordy.  So, I'm new to pheros.  And, I realize that I'm having a hard time always starting with the less is better concept and have to force myself to restrain from slathering things on...especially when I find the intent of the phero fascinating and/or effective and the accompanying perfume delicious.  I'm learning from experience the hard way 🙄.

 

My daughter is in Cheer.  She's tight with a new group of friends in her newish school and I'm in favor of these girls because they are all nice, well brought up and act right.  All of the moms are tight and also super involved in Cheer (coaching, even)  I have pretty much nothing in common with any of them except 1) we all have daughters and 2) our daughters all do tumbling and cheer.  So, my daughter has been really wanting me to try to snuggle up to these women in order to be even more in the group.  I get it.  There are things she doesn't get invited to because it's the moms who want to hang out and I'm not at all part of the mom group.  I won't lie - I don't particularly want to be.  But, that being said, if being more a part of their group is gonna make my kid happy, I'm willing to try.  However, they are very cliquish and not terribly welcoming.  And I'm shy and run out of things to say - especially because we have very little in common.  They also say crappy things about how "skinny" I am that are supposed to funny but aren't.  So that's awkward as all hell to say the least.

 

I've learned by accident that one mom is SUPER sensitive to cops.  I don't wear those if there is even a chance I might see her.  I've tried TH.  Nothing bad, nothing good.  I've worn OW.  Nothing bad, nothing good.  I wore PP once and there was more interest in me, but not much more.  I tried Levitation.  The girls loved it, but the moms?  Not that I could tell.  I was wearing Teddy BB once when I ran into one at Target.  Zip.  Balm Bomb made the girls tell my daughter over and over again how amazingly "chill" I was, (lolol) but the moms?  Nada.  LFM?  Nope.  Just more distance.  H&S didn't give me anything noticeable either.  GG was great for the girls.  The one mom I saw that day was nice enough but still distant.  However, I guess this is a lot of info that has nothing to do with CP, lol.

 

My BIG mistake was to wear Cougar Potion the last time I saw  them.  Spouse and I were going out later and last minute I found out there was a Cheer registration event my daughter wanted to go to.  So, I gotta say, I had slathered on the CP.  I had oil roll-on layered with spray (I've been doing a lot of that since we live somewhere hot)...likely more than I needed, but I was thinking about where spouse and I would be, not that I was going to be hanging out with these women.  Two of them (the main ones I'm supposed to cuddle up to) couldn't even stand by me.  It's not that they were mean and ugly, but they were totally not interested and totally wanted to have a physical distance from me.  We were outside (thank god) and there was a wind blowing (maybe not so great since I was blowing right on them).  Anyway, note to self:  CP is not good to wear in bulk when one is trying to make friendly with chilly, not so welcoming women.  Sigh.

Two things IMO. Yes, the place you were was not ideal for Cougar. 

Sure she could have been put off by any amout of Cougar. But, I think the  issue might have been your dose.

I've worn Cougar to school'ish and other social places. My average dose for that is approximately 1 swipe of oil at nape of neck and a 2" swipe smooshed between wrists. 

I

My friend and I took our kids for a quick vacation. We went out at night, July 4th. Had a great time and some serious flirtatious action with a cute guy. I used 1 big spray from my unscented x2 cougar bottle with Magnolia Fairy cake. 

Different situations for sure. But, wherever you end up, don't ghost yourself. We have all done the ghost at one point. At least you have a funny story.

I have a cure for you. When you go back to the Cheer Moms try wearing Treasured Hearts. No cops or anything sexual. TH is great all round. It goes with other women. I call it the old bitch tamer. It's great for family time or alone time with your DH (you could add a dab of cops for that). It would fit right into your life with all those moving parts.

I regard to the other ladies... and for yourself, I also recomend Balm Bomb or Teddy BB. They are very relaxing blends. 

In what I've learned over the years. Don't wear pheros in any physically weakened condition. For example its not recomended when you're sick. There are a few older posts about that around the forum.

You are overtaxing yourself. Its alot for the body to cope with. 

As for caffeine, I am a 1 cup of coffee a day person now.

The caffeine in combo with fasting, that alone is a lot of stress on your body.

 Pass on the pheros those days.

Just fyi some pheros don't go well with alcohol either. Or, lets just say you get a buzz faster. "Audacious" & "Topper" come to mind. 

Be safe.

9 hours ago, FlowerPower said:

Thank you!! This gives me something to think about. I do like the new Dom blend. Maybe I will try it with Cuddle Bunny. Hmmm

He’s definitely a very Alpha person. Even my guy friends have said this. He reacts well to the EST in CB, but if worn too long it ramps up his testosterone and he starts bossing everyone around. I’m not the type to be bossed 😉

 

i dont own Sexpionage, never had an interest in it. I do own sexology, I think I tried this with him before but don’t recall the reaction. 

You have Dom and he responds well to that. Have you tried wearing Dom with a LITTLE CB? You will probably have to experiment with the ratios. My guess is you might find a sweet spot there. Balancing the two blends to make him chivalrous. But not using too much EST. The Dom to tame the inner boss. 

Its intresting and not uncommon for an outwardly alfa guy who's busy being boss, or thinks he has to be so the world doesn't fall apart, to want a female boss behind closed doors. They make up a good part of the Dominatrix business. They like being boss. But, want that release of no control for a while. Then back to BAU.

If you have Dom, Leather and CB. You have a good place to start. Don't mix Leather & CB that would-be too much EST, getting more of that result you don't want. Leather is 50% Est and CB is very EST heavy. Basically I'm saying if the Leather doesn't quite get you there try the Dom with just very little CB to start. 

 If you find the right ratios you can always "Mad Scientist" order that so its on hand.

I think someone mentioned BAM up thread and I really agree. Give it a whirl. IMO, Its very warm and sexy. I always say it makes me feel like I'm purring. You don't have to go full bottle, just get a couple of trials in diffetent scents. I am an addict for the Original scent. It such a perfect partner for the phero. Pink Amber & Sandalwood & Resins are favs too. S&R is sophisticated and sheer, very nice. 

PM is definately worth a try. It can help even things out.

IMO, It seems like you need to "tweak" the EST stuff to get close to what you want. I think bringing in the PM and BAM would add a new dimension to the relationship. 

Not to totally confuse things. Have you tried Treasured Hearts?

18 hours ago, tyvey said:

I’ll tell you what I *wouldn't* wear: BI.  In my experience it makes alpha dudes cross and sometimes downright rude. 

Lol. It does the same thing to me + a spliting headache. 

11 hours ago, Eggers said:

I've worn PM with a swipe of BAM in my cleavage. I love the effect that has! On both of us!

That's the holy trinity of bonding right there. ❤️

On 5/20/2019 at 8:15 AM, Honeycake said:

I was looking at Padma, but I think I will try the Popularity Potion new release - I can't think of the name of it right now.... 

#8 of the NR's contains Hedione. Oh yea. Its the one with Pop Potion so win win.  Get a sample. Get a trial of Padma too. Its so pretty. 

On 5/20/2019 at 8:20 AM, Honeycake said:

 

You are right...maybe I wasn't clear.  I guess I am more concerned with comparing the phero ratios.  Maybe a better comparison would have been Carta vs Flying Potion.

 

 

Thanks StacyK.  You remember all the stuff...   

Ok so this would be like Topper vs Levitation.  Ok. 

I don't remember Dance of Passion.  What was that one like? 

I was just using that as an example of rearranging the ratios of pheros. Its not similiar at all. Lol.

DOP was a sexy scent enhanced with EST and COPs. But, not CB because the ratios were different. 

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2 hours ago, FlowerPower said:

So, I have been dating my lovely Alpha BF for going on 6 months now. We are still very much in love, but sometimes he can get a little cheeky and tries to be a little bossy. Here how he has reacted to the different mones:

CB - generally makes him feel like doing something sweet and nice for me or treating me to something BUT if I wear this around him too much he can become a little bossy. He does like to cuddle when I wear this.

LFM - He is very respectful, and generally gives me my way, but does not try to spoil me. Good for when he is getting too bossy

LFN - He is very respectful and we generally have a good time. Doesn't elicit gifts/favors LOL

Cougar - He thinks I'm the hottest thing smokin'!! But not the most romantic

Gotcha - He had a bad reaction to this, I think we had an argument the ONE time I wore it around him

Pop potion - Neutral

Open Windows - He LOVES THIS STUFF, this makes him feel good, but not enough romance for me

CB/OW - Usually a winner, but need to tame that bossiness! 

 

I would like his respect, but I still want him to want to spoil me some and feel like cuddling with me. Suggestions? I'm open.

I have never known a true Alfa not to be a sucker for EST. 

That's weird about "Gotcha". Have you tried it more than once? Did you adjust the dosage and how did it affect you?

But, mileage will very, as they say. 

I'm curious, and I hope this does not come across the wrong way.

I'm just curious what traits he displays. What tells you he's alpha? This also might help you choose.  

What are you looking for? What reaction from him are you trying to nudge? 

I noticed you did not mention "Sexpionage". Great for twisting the sheets. "Sexology" is sexy, cuddly and bonding.

Are you trying to connect? PM. To add a dash of sex you could put a swipe of BAM in your clevage. 

Omg.... I hope mine comes soon.  

Waits patiently.