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Yes, this is a surprise that I am giving my man for Christmas.....I tried it on myself from the vial, and got turned on.....he will definitely wear this! It smells so gooooood!

And I find that with me, it isn't that my skin chemistry changes too much during the month, but often my PERCEPTION of certain scents changes at varying times during the month. For instance, I may love a scent for weeks, then HATE it for a few days, then back to loving it, even though it never smells "different" to me.....just appealing vs unappealing.....

Yes she did! I love the drive by fruiting.....smells like a yummy fruit salad! The Open Windows is working to turn my frown upside down, too!

This year, Mara did the Drive By Fruiting with Open Windows....YAY! Probably because she was tired of my begging..... I love it! So nice! All fruity and happy! And I am in one of those piss-poor moods. getting over a sinus infection and finally able to SMELL again.....and just grumpy in general. SO needed my box today!! Mara, I love you!! This scent and phero combo is SO PERFECT! It is going to work so nicely in my tax office in the upcoming season....now I only need about.....OH, 100 more!!!!

I like this one. Dark, but not too dark. I think the neroli gives it a little hint of almost a zing....if that makes sense. Glad I went full bottle unsniffed on this one.

I would suggest that you stick with the Gotcha for now, since he is getting used to that phero signature. To switch up now would potentially freak him out and possibly scare him off since he is so gun-shy. You COULD add some cops, like with an OCCO.....but I would be careful with rushing it too much, based on his issues.

Really? WOW.

Yes. beta-androstEnol is what is in TMI.....and yes, beta-androstAnol and beta-androstEnol are both in Gotcha. beta-Anol encourages a relaxed happiness vibe and beta-Enol helps promote bonding. Just because a particular phero is typically used in "male" or "unisex" phero blends, doesn't mean it cannot be in a women's blend. Most pheros are produced by both sexes anyway, with a few exceptions of course. For instance, Est is one of the exceptions, as it is secreted by pregnant women, so I would not put Est on a man (It is too early in the morning for me to think of all of them). Cops are only produced by women, but sometimes a smidge is used in male blends to give off the vibe that the guy is a bad boy who has been laid recently. But anyway, a men's blend would most definitely not have Est in it. Gotcha has Est and Cops, thus taking it in a female direction. In most cases, the difference is in the ratios as to whether a particular blend is intended for women or for men. For instance, Androstenone, a "typically" male phero, is in Dominance, a women's blend. That is because women also produce it naturally, but in much smaller amounts than men. You really can't go by order in an ingredients list with pheros.....some molecules may only need a minute amount to produce an effect, while others may need a larger amount. I leave all of that to the scientists. My suggestion is to try the blends and see if they work for you. If they don't, then don't use them. And as Bella said, the phero wiki is a very good resource, and everyone should take advantage of it.

You might want to try something more lighthearted then, such as Open Windows or Levitation. At a bare minimum, it should put you both in a good mood.

You're not threadjacking my dear! My man can have bad bad reactions with heavy doses of Est, regardless of the beta-nol. The reason I said her issue may be the beta-nol WITH the est is because she said she has tried high doses of Est around him with no issues. I haven't personally tried Empathy on my man precisely BECAUSE his reactions to Est can be so erratic. One day it may be ok, one day meh, and then off the charts HORRIBLE. The reactions that he has, when bad, are also VERY out of character for him.....he gets standoffish and sometimes downright MEAN.....and that is just NOT his normal personality. He is normally a happy, attentive, very sweet guy who wants to cater to me. After my last try with an Est heavy blend with him, it was so ugly, I won't go there again. If I use something like Leather or BI, which temper the Est with a more dominant hand, he is perfectly fine.

I like Open Windows.....so Levitation would probably work....also if you have something with Swimming with Sharks, that one has always proved good in the workplace.

Maybe just steer clear of the empathy potion for your other meeting with him....it could be anything, maybe the combination of beta-nol and est....who knows? I don't think I would test it again in this situation where this project is so important. I would go with something upbeat that you know he responds well to, if it were me. Maybe you can try the empathy when you don't have quite so much to lose.

You can get UNscented blends in a silicone base in Roll On, but no scented blends.

All I can add....and I know this will sound kind of wacko.....but my Grandmother had dementia when she passed a coupe of years ago. She didn't recognize my sister or any of my cousins (even the orphan that she raised for like 5 years) but she did recognize me and even recalled events from when I was a child, as long as I was wearing Dominance.

You and I must be twins Invi! Dom is one of my staples!! And this scent is 100% congruent with Dom and cops....so sexy!!

LOL.....BB, you made me laugh so hard at this! When I wear Dom, it tells people....."You will love me whether you like it or not !" LOL

Dominance has the Enone.....also Leather, a little bit softer but same general thing.....

With me, it is just the opposite impression. It is dry and a bit more masculine at first, but on both me and my man, it is sweeter and more "perfumey". This one will probably end up on my shelf rather than his.

Yep, after testing for several hours, it is mood lifter for me. I am ok with working but I get the overly perfectionist attitude.....almost like, Hey I have time to do this at my leisure......

OK, so early review....this one made me feel good, like ready to roll with my work, but relaxed. Not so tense about having so much to do. But in a way, that is not a good thing, because I am like taking a little too much time with my work....not good when I am in a time crunch. I mean, yeah, I need to take my time, but was worrying about how an internal-use spreadsheet (for my eyes only, not the client) was formatted and how it looked....Hmmmm

Using this one to try to motivate myself today.....so much to do, and was sick yesterday. Couple of sprays to the chest, one split between the backs of my hands.

I had NOX that had either B2 or TH in them....they were great. Would like to see bunches with TH......such a good blend for melts. The Sugared Resins with TH were very nice! Open Windows also works really well in the melts. I would kill for some Drive By Fruiting Melts with Open Windows.

I'm sad that it didn't work for you, but yep, that just means more for me!! LOL Personally, it loves me as much as I love it.....it is gorgeous on me.....I want to bathe myself in it!

My man tried this one last night, and it smells fab on him. Very fresh. Tonka generally does smell great on him, though.

LAM is pretty basic....just alpha-nol and cops.....so if it is a blend you want to take into a happy, sexy direction should be ok.... Cops to any blend is ok....depending on the setting of course!!.....That is why the OCCO blends were made! The things I cation against is mixing two COMPLEX blends....for instance, Cougar and LFM, or Cougar with SS4W. etc