Rose Blackthorn Posted December 23, 2015 Share Posted December 23, 2015 Hi everyone. I have a long time friend, I have known this woman for over forty years. We go back that far! We have been estranged from each other over that span of time two times. Each period of estrangement being long, 10 + years. The separations have been due to my reaching points where I can simply not deal with her insecurity, unwarranted jealousy, and her seeing everything as a competition. I have a choice to make regarding letting her back into my life again. I suppose I am looking at the situation and thinking, "Okay, life is too short for this BS, no one is getting any younger, and no one is perfect." I realize that she will always be the somewhat crazy, insecure person that she has always been, she is this way with ALL women, and I have no expectations that this will change. We have been as close as if we were sisters, I am wondering if wearing the right pheros around her could assist in at least taking the edge off of her issues, but upon reading up, am confused. Empathy *might* be helpful, but would either G2 or Heart and Soul, or something else be better choices in dealing with someone like this? I am losing my patience with this and this will be my final effort with her. I would appreciate and welcome the thoughts people here! Thank you! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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