Almathea I think it could be the amounts you are using, but it may be that the phero is not for you. I mean Cougar was a total bust for me. It worked, but in all the wrong ways. Maybe you get hits, but not ths kind of hits you want. Or you are so incongruent that people are kind of like wtf?? Or as stated before, maybe you ghost.
I am eager to find out how your mad scientist mix goes!