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  1. Not necessarily just hundreds of years ago.... Even done today within certain cultures.
  2. Oh, I had forgotten about this! Yes! I have tried this and it does work! Running off now to write self a reminder to get more with next order...
  3. Sending Thoughts of support, persuasive power, and success in communicating and manifesting all that is in your best interest!
  4. Oh, I am SOOOOOO WITH YOU on this! And, I did already place a nice-sized order at the beginning of December... however, there is so much more I want! Decisions, decisions....
  5. Thank you for the feedback, Halo. I personally and thankfully do not experience any PMS symptoms... except the need to cuddle more... and the fact that my Azawakh (African Greyhound) becomes ultra-protective about a week beforehand. So, I wouldn't be able to do any personal experimentation. Just wondering what to suggest to others, as I know so many women who do experience the more difficult symptoms. I work with so many menopausal women using hypnosis (the most recent study put out by Baylor University shows a 75% reduction in symptomology using hypnosis) and am always looking for additional beneficial approaches.
  6. Hmm, I am rather feminine in attire (love lace, soft textures, that kind of thing) and choice of profession (helping/therapeautic/teaching) and in terms of maternal drive (5 kids... and my house has always been the 'haven house' when anyone needs a break from their uncomfortable home environment... and, I'm not just talking the kids!) and I guess appearance (rounded hips, big boobs... and always described as 'tiny'/ feminine... not necessarily the raving/stunning beauty however I am attractive enough) however that description isn't unique to me... I know a lot of us haveeither elements or any combination of that kind of body type, professional approach, maternal drive. On the other hand, I train physically with weights, swords, sledge hammers; I kick ass in competition, and... the one time when I did drink, I easily drank men twice my weight under the table. I have been known to approach abusive men in public (yes, the stupid jerks actually do get abusive in public! Go figure!) with little more than a baseball bat in my hand (and once only my bare hands) and challenge them... and, on the rare occasion when the challenge was accepted, it was them that ended up on the ground with broken noses and dislocated kneecaps, not me. There has only been one exception to that scenario... and that is an entirely different story involving my sociopathic step-son and my then-2 year old granddaughter... and, in that situation, I simply wasn't prepared to inflict bodily harm... he was, after all, a kid himself and one to whom my role was to be the protector... I prevented the harm to my granddaughter but sustained injuries rather than injure him... and, knowing our justice system, that wasn't simply an altruistic/maternalistic/protective decision. So, that distinction of feminine/dominant is a tough distinction to make... I fully believe that all of those aspects are aspects of femininity.... And, like Quince, My Beloved definitely SEES himself in the protector/provider role... however, he has repeatedly been the "Failed Protector", with some VERY adverse life-changing fallouts due to this behavior... so, it isn't the actuality of fulfilling the role, but the perception which might be the influencing factor here. So, the 'mone triggers something emotional/fundamental within them... and the Sensitizing Events for these triggers can be either positive or, in the case of My Beloved, negative experiences... And, Dolly's man can definitely see himself in this same role... however, for him there might not be the same emotional/core trigger (My Beloved's trigger might be very well so sensitive because he has been the Failed Protector during some extremely critical moments) so he simply doesn't respond to the Est... However, if a man's experience with a powerful, lovingly 'in-charge' female has been positive, and so that is the trigger which has more power and influence for him, then the more alpha-signature blends might be more powerful and effective. And, this points to our personalities shaping and influencing the company we keep, which we all can see happening in our own lifes! I do think, and psychological theory does substantiate this, that our personalities do impact to whom we are attracted and who we attract to us. So, in keeping with that theory, yes, some of us, because of our personalities, will be more likely to be attracted to/attract the kind of man with whom Est-blends or Alpha-blends would work best. There are so many psychometric tests of personality and suggestibility and sexuality behavior; I often wonder if we couldn't find some kind of correlation between this or that measure and the efficacy of particular blends. Or, perhaps, it would be best correlated to certain hormonal measures (and, many of the forum users do report variable effects from blends over the course of their cycles, so perhaps there is something there). And, these correlations could be either between the user/wearer's psychometric/hormonal measures and the blend... and/or the "audience's" psychometric/hormonal measures and the blend... or some mixture/balance of the two. Would be cool to see if we could come up with correlations, wouldn't it? Bottom line: have fun experimenting! Watch for subtle effects. Be willing to really explore with the blends... something which you might have thought wouldn't have been 'for you' might very well be the absolute ticket (Any one else remember my surprise, when I first started using the 'mones, at how other ladies were using PheroBoy? So, explore the heretofore unexplored for you!) And, when something doesn't work yet... back off, change something up (if you want clean experiemental data, only adjust one aspect at a time), and collect more data. Above all: have fun!
  7. I have clients who come in, or bring their daughters in, for Tibetan Bowl treatments specifically for PMS. Haver you experienced any relief using Balm Bomb? I haven't yet had the opportunity to try it out; very curious about it. I did just get a sample so I'll be experimenting soon!
  8. Back when I was in the classroom, with full school and parent awareness, I used various different LP blends and pheroblends all the time; they are extremely effective. Even trained some of my students to use them throughout the rest of their school day. Wax melts, the spraying of scents, the wearing of certain scents on your self... all very effective means of 'manipulating' the situation. Thoughts about which ones? Treasured Hearts and Balm Bomb have been mentioned; although I haven't had first hand experience with these yet, their descriptions sound effective. I think I would use Treasured Hearts over Balm Bomb. And, I would use Tranquility Potion. Hmm, scent-wise, I would go for something which gives a protective aspect to the home environment. You have outside influences (the drugs) impacting the sanctity and peace of your home; set up a wall of protection against them. And, about that wall of protection... well, that involves protecting from the influence of these "other delinquents". "Your behavior has shown me that you need protection from the negative influence of others. Until you can show me that you can ignore the negative influence of others, you will have limited interaction with Delinquent X, Delinquent Y, and Delinquent Z." I did wonder when I read the first few posts whether drug and/or alcohol exploration was involved, as it is very common for kids to be curious at that age. Regarding MJ use... recent studies indicate that use of MJ by teenagers results in a drop of 8 IQ points as adults. Don't know if that kind of research matters to your young man, but it certainly made an impact on mine. The far less definitive studies indicating a theorized link between MJ and schizophrenia also dissuaded him. We didn't even discuss the synthetic versions; he just dismissed them as completely unacceptable alternatives: "That isn't intended for human consumption."; "Even the scientist who created it found no positive effects, only negative medical effects!"; and "Hallucinations, partial paralysis, and seizures... ah, no thank you!" [As some of you might remember, The Boy, now 17, is my youngest out of 5. Once you have that many, there aren't any surprises which can come your way in terms of parenting. So, he just never even tries to get anything past me! Just comes right out and asks or we research things together. When some of his friends began using, he simply asked for/researched all the pros and cons and made his decision accordingly. While so relaxing to be able to discuss ANYTHING without the burden of arguments, judgements, etc it can sometimes be a bit mind-boggling/disconcerting when he brings up some of these topics....] One daughter (and she has given me complete and total permission to disclose) did have a period of drug exploration. With her, it was a definite 'self-medication' issue. She is extremely emphatic, very sensitive to the emotional energies of others. Drugs were her way of escaping all of the emotional input she simply didn't have any other means of screening out. If I knew then what I know now, we would have certainly weathered that situation much more effectively. A few take-aways from that experience: Address the issue(s) head-on: Absolute no-tolerance for the drug use... and a full-scale evaluation of any and all contributing factors. Absolutely involve professionals and objective parties into the evaluation process. Could be that it is simply curiousity/boredom/etc; okay, plenty of ways to explore and get excitement in one's life without endangering oneself to this extent. Could be rebellion; if so, work on the awareness (on the part of everyone) that differentiation from a teenager into an adult does not need to be accompanied by such overt rebellious acts. One can differentiate and disagree without endangering one's self. Could be self-esteem/self-confidence/etc... Could be self-medication of emotional concerns (as with my daughter); any signs of dsythmia/depression/etc? Hmm, if rebellion is the concern, I would be interested in how effective Dominance might be with your son. When rebellion was a problem in my classroom (I worked with Emotionally Disabled middle schoolers... so, 13-14 year olds), PheroGirl Dominance was my go-to scent. I was absolutely regarded as the one in control in that classroom. I didn't concern myself with the sexual impact of the blend; the boys already talked about me in the locker room so I figured what the heck.... BTW, and, yes, I am aware this is a bit of a non sequiter, but interesting research none the less..... most guys nowadays are experiencing lowered test and that there are tons of little things like that which we, as a culture, are doing to feminize our men. For instance, did you know that drinking out of the thin plastic beverage bottles (commercial bottled water, sodas, etc) is linked to lowered test.?
  9. Hmm, I don't see how to post pictures; the little image icon on the message toolbar asks for a url and doesn't provide for an upload.... If someone wants to tell me how, I will post the pics.... I bought them from Target, in the cosmetics section. One is black, with 3 sections.... the other is polka dotted with 2 sections. They weren't manufactured to work together as a set, but, the polka dotted one sets right inside the top of the black one....
  10. I thought all of the Black Panthers were already spoken for? I'll have to go double-check... (rushing off to see if any remain.....)
  11. Yes! Exactly! One of them is even black, too! LOL! I call it my LP Bat Belt....
  12. I think it was too long ago... I still have the same satchels.. still in great condition... and still serving as such a great way to keep my LPs organized and it is always easy to find exactly the type I am needing for the situation!
  13. And, I will second that WORD! I'm struggling to get my current wishlist and budget to mesh so I can place my order! I want it ALL! Note (again) to self: "Never, ever, ever again take a furlow from LMPMs! Regret and the need to BUY EVERYTHING ensue!" I'm sure I do not have the most full bottles... however, years ago I posted my personal management system: Because I wanted something which reduced the possiblity of light damage to the wonderous works of olfactory art created by our PM, I have some beautiful boxes (one wooden and another in a faux leather suitcase style) for storing my 'stashed' full bottles of treasured scents I want to ensure I have for some time. And, since I change out scents during the day, depending on the particular task before me (creative activities; working with special needs kids; working with adults; educational pursuits; etc) I carry a variety of 'in-use' scents with me in this great little multicompartment satchel I found at Target. There is a section for social scents and pheroblends, another for work (creativity, insight, communication, etc) scents and pheroblends, and another section for those incredibly sexy scents and pheroblends. I probably change out scents 2 or 3 times a day! Some of the forum members who have been on the boards since '07/'08 might remember my posting about my little satchel of scents Scent is such an incredibly powerful tool... for relaxation, for increased focus, for stimulating creativity, for arousing interest.... I really am so glad that I discovered LPMP so I can always have the tools I need to maximize the use of scent!
  14. And, as Dolly and I discovered a few years back, My Beloved is the (almost extreme) other end of the spectrum from Dolly's .... Cuddle Bunny is always a sure thing with My Beloved but if I wear anything with too much of an Alpha-Vibe without balancing it with Est, it can get ugly here. So,Cuddle Bunny is a definite staple of mine but Dominance-type blends only get used in situations outside/away from the home in which I need to assert the upper hand (say, for example, when I am working with a certain class of recalcitrant clients)
  15. I haven't trialed Leather too extensively... Just spritzed it on for a first-trial... and the funniest thing! My Azawakh (African Greyhound) is now attached to my side... he most definitely likes this phero-blend! It is hilarious! Now, he is a very affectionate guy and he is over-the-top in love with me to begin with... but this blend has him stuck like glue, completely enthralled with my every move and my every word!
  16. Upon application: a very cherry-almond-marzipan scent, almost like a plastic feel to the scent. Drydown: After about 20 minutes or so, the plastic feel fades away as the amber settles it down into a deeper but still sweet-almondy scent. I really like the LFN phero blend and am so glad I ordered a FB for use with other scents! The phero blend really amps up my sexxxxy, sultry, sensual vibe but without carrying it beyond the realm of social fun. A perfect blend! I wore this to an awards dinner for My Beloved the other night. Keep in mind, my mouth/tongue/throat were still significantly swollen (noticeably and visibly so)... drinking, eating, and even talking were not perfect. In other words, I really had to focus on getting mouth closure to swallow without leakage (I know! Right! so NOT SEXY) and to talk without slurring or slobbering (Yeah, Baby! Sexy to the Max!) and I certainly didn't feel really up to being all dolled up for a fancy-shmancy dress-to-the-nines kind of event... YET everyone kept complimenting me, I pulled the whole 'beautiful wife on the arms of her successful man" bit off without a hitch, without any one the wiser (mayhaps they thought I had my lips injected on purpose to achieve that bee-stung look????)... and, My Beloved definitely responded to the 'mones during the after-party events
  17. Sigh... until the full/residual effects of that adverse to antibiotics reaction disappear... I'm left only with La Femme... I'm just celebrating actually being able to eat a few bites for dinner last night; I think we might have another week to go for the rest of the fun stuff. I might just be Deep Throat more than he is!
  18. And, this morning, My Beloved asked if he could have a Full Bottle of Unisexy... hee, hee... I have created other LPMP-addicts! So, I really need to place an order before things sell out!
  19. While I haven’t personally tried this on myself yet, My Beloved is really rocking this scent! It’s his Scent of the Day today, and may just end up being one of his ‘go-to’ scents (so, I guess I’m ordering a full bottle of this one as well as the Pashazade...) On him, a definite soft, clean musk with just enough tobacco (see, that’s the note that has kept me from trying it on myself... tobacco just doesn’t play well on my skin... but, on him, mmmmm...) and sandlewood to masculine the scent up. Very nice! Haha... the phero effects are making him talk a bit more and a bit faster than he normally does... and, that is saying a lot! My Beloved LOVES to hear himself talk (thank G-d he is intelligent, knowledgeable, and erudite... even still, sometimes I just have to tune him out... hmm, to order this one un-phero’d or phero’d... that is the question! The effect is kind of charming and amusing...)
  20. Definitely seconding your review LadyV... I LOVE this on My Beloved! This is a definite FB for him. Extremely sexy, extremely masculine (hee, just like My Beloved!). I love the exotic spicy feel of the scent... and, even though it has the tea leaves (for that tobacco-like scent), I think the tea leaves combined with cedar makes it smells so clean on his skin (in a bad boy-clean kind of way... not a soapy/detergent way). Definitely a FB for My Beloved!
  21. MMM. Straight out of the vial onto my skin, I get Chocolatey Yumminess ... drying down to deliciously sweet buttery warmth... creamy...soft and sweet. As for the BI- effect: Hee, hee... it's My Beloved's birthday... and there is nothing like buttercream frosting for breakfast in bed on one's birtday. 'nuf said. And, just checked the LP shopping cart... only 2 more full bottles of this yummy scent in the cart!
  22. Oh, I LOVE giving My Beloved LMPMs for gifts... Hee,Hee.. They only LOOK like gifts for him! They are really for ME! I just drool over how yummy-sexy he smells! So, I say you should give your boyfriend a bottle and choose whichever one just completely rocks your world when it's on his skin In fact, Mara just makes my gift-giving so much easier! My sons and daughters love getting samples every gift-giving occasion... They get some in their Halloween goodie bags, they get some on their birthday, and they get some at Chanukah Last night's Chanukah gifts were LPs! Full bottle of Kitten Nip for my daughter with children of her own; My Beloved and The Boy received samples with a handmade certificate for a FB of their choice, another Daughter received Spontaneous Combustion and the third daughter a sample pack.... Lots of joyous sniffing last night
  23. Completely off-topic... But QG's comment cracked me up so much I couldn't resist! LOL! My 17 year old is quite the hairy guy... For several years now it has been a running joke with his friends to get him some kind of Chewbacca gift for Chanukah! The gift tags read "To Jewbacca!". Tonight he came home with a 2-foot tall talking Chewie plushie!
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