quietguy

Haha - as long as I am not the focus of your ire! Quince OTOH is on his own!

Haha - speak of the devil ... You know I am just kidding!!

Like Luna has said, honesty really is the best policy lol!

Hope springs eternal ...

The Naked Ladies of LPMP! :smiley-sex009:

Haha - I think you just did!

Hello and welcome to the forum!!

I prescribe to take your mind off the wait ....

Just breathing can enhance your general and sexual attractiveness although there are some guys who prefer cool women who do not have anything to say. When you get to the heart of the matter, is there really any other way?

Yeah - lol - sounds like it worked as advertised. Which sometimes surprises you at first. I take it part of the babble is caused by the A-Nols. That is why I generally prefer B-Nols. They still babble, but they feel so connected to you and tend to talk about something that is important - well at least to them haha. With A-Nols I find the babble all over the place - "Oh, look, something shiny!"

Well a little good natured evil is OK haha!! Another two big concepts with pheros. Both from the aspect of the right phero for the right occasion. Like sexy pheros at a wedding is OK if you have your eye on one of the groomsmen. Work can be iffy - you will probably be giving off the wrong vibe depending on work-place conditions. And people might pick up the sexy vibe at a funeral but it would come across as all wrong and no one would react. But there is also the context of you acting in accordance with your pheros - what BB called congruence (we were posting at the same time!). It does you no good to throw on the sexy stuff for a night out on the town with the girls if you are just going to hide in the background. Your actions will always overpower the pheromones. Likewise if you throw on the social stuff and refuse to interact with anyone. The pheros help with social interactions. You have to interact for them to help. The final point is key for everyday phero use, especially work related or social pheros. Just go about your business and let the pheros work for you. Everyone looks for hits at first but after a while you learn to just go about your business and let them pave the way for you. Sorry if I am "talking" too much here. I love the subject.

Haha - it is always funny when someone speaks a language unexpectedly. Around here, I surprise people when they realize I speak Spanish. When I was home one summer while in college, I dropped my mom off at one of her "ladies gatherings" - this one was a bunch of the wives of my dad's work colleagues getting together for some kind of benefit event. When I picked my mom up at it's conclusion she kept looking at me with an odd expression. I thought I was late or maybe I had missed a hint she wanted help at the event and was upset with me. Finally I asked her what was wrong. She said that after I had helped her take some donated stuff for the benefit in from the car and left, one of the very young wives (just past college herself) asked who I was. Mom told her I was her son home from college. She said the wife replied "If I was single, I would jump his bones." My poor mom was .... ummm, somewhat consternated with that comment for a couple days. For the most part, I took it to be a "modern" compliment but considering I had recently fended off an unhappily married woman who was just a few years older than me, I gave it all a wide berth just to be safe.

LMAO - I missed this entire sub-thread somehow!!

There are always some self-effects at first. They tend to wear off after a while. I do not use Alpha-Nols a lot as the big blather they can generate can drive me crazy sometimes. Although A-nols are certainly good and have their place. So I have to be careful when I use them so I do not become the chatter king. OK - I was not going to go there but now that Luna & Mara have - I agree completely. I see me wearing pheromones no differently than the "social manipulation/engineering" women do wearing appealing outfits, make-up and perfume. Thank you for your kind words. I was originally drawn here to try different pheromones but in addition to the solid pheromone products Mara offers here I stayed for the great scents (gotta cover them with something!) and the fun personalities and conversations. Those people have you "bookmarked" - it may take you a while to push through a different message "pheromonally". (If "pheromonally" is a word lol.)

I usually have a day or good part of a day that is pheromone free mixed in there too.

You can get some funny reactions from people depending on how well they know you. My mom started looking at me funny when I first started using pheromones as did my wife. They both knew me well enough to know that "something" was different. My wife both knows I use pheromones and is probably used to a slightly changing signature. My mom does not know but I guess she is used to it now also. For someone you only see once a week or month I might use the same pheromones around them for a while if you want to reinforce that signature. If not, it might not matter.

This is very true. And I combine this with another interesting effect I have seen with pheromones: I will tend to wear the same pheromone blend for about 10 days or so. After that. I have noticed that people get "used to" that pheromone signature and the "wow" factor wears off. So then I switch to another blend for 10 days or so, and rotate through pheromone blends that are appropriate for my daily activities. When I first started doing this I noticed that people would tend to treat or view me more according to the pheromone blend I was wearing. For example if I was wearing something like Swimming with Sharks they would react accordingly. Then when I switched to something like Charisma they would react to it. But after doing this rotation for a while I noticed the reactions would blend. People "remembered" all the different impressions and depending on the situation would react accordingly - if I needed cooperation, they gave it to me. But even though I was the boss the cooperation came more from them wanting to because they also had the "charisma" or "MVP" memory. I was the SWS authority figure but they wanted to help/cooperate because I was the "Charisma/MVP" boss, not the Donald Trump "You're Fired" boss. And I will also tell you in this regard Beta-Nols are your friend. Beta-Nols create a bonding feeling. People feel close to you and want to share with you. They will tell you what is important both professionally and personally. At work the professional part is important. They share important "good to know" stuff that might not otherwise hit your desk. So no matter what I was wearing at work I might throw in an extra spray of something like TMI. Of course I am not saying the personal is not important. When they share about something personal that is of concern to them, we all know a genuine "How is your wife/child/parent? I hope they are doing better" means A LOT to people. And people function much better as a team if they feel connected to and appreciated by the people around them. Of course the big question comes up "Is this manipulating people?" Yes and no. Again, pheromones cannot make people do anything they do not want to do. They merely help you steer the situation where you want it to go. The real work will always be up to you. But I do not feel it is manipulating people any more than anything else I do: dress and act professionally, personal grooming, appropriate behavior for the situation, genuine concern for the people around me, etc.. That all helps project an "appropriate image" and encourages the people who work with you to do the same.

I ordered seconds of stuff: (more) Bedeviled, (more) Brother Brimstone, (more) Cry Havoc, (more) Charisma, (more) Sand Box, (more) Sands of the Nile, (more) Teddy Man, and (more) Wanted Man. And then a bottle of Thane from the $10.00 bin, with Ruisseau, Salute, Shade, Home Run, Eternal Sunshine & Lion Heart as my freebies.

Mrs. QG might appreciate one of those glasses for Christmas also lol!

I'll join you but go with some vodka ... Aww - c'mon - join Tyvey, MDC and I. Nothing like looking at your invoice in the morning and saying "I bought whaaaaat?" Just do push-ups in front of the computer.

Good night DD! Hope you get a good night's sleep.

I would really recommend trying one single pheromone or blend at a time until you see what they do for you. The other thing you need to do is find your "sweet spot" - the dose that gives you the reactions you are looking for. Start low and work you way up. Once you have individual pheromones or blends down, then play with combinations.

Congrats ladies!

Exactly. Pheromones often work more at a subconscious level - they are more like whispers and it is up to you to get people to act on them. It could be these guys are picking up on the "whispers" - in this case a "sexual vibe" - but just are not interested. Pheromones are not magic. Just because I put on Wanted Man or Throb does not mean my wife much less any other woman is going to automatically jump my bones, much less even feel the urge to do so. What they might register is a sexual vibe coming off of me but if my wife is upset about work or mad at me because I did or did not do (insert whatever here), then it just isn't happening.

I agree with the ladies. As a married guy I may think a female other than my wife is attractive but showing that much less acting on it by flirting or more would be bad. In multiple ways. But a single guy is free to flirt and pursue a relationship as he sees fit. The thing to remember is that pheromones will affect everyone around you to some level. Some people will mask those effects for a variety of reasons: they are married, inappropriate environment, etc.. Others will not. Sexual pheromones in particular can be a double-edged sword. I have had sexual pheromones on when I have been out with my wife and other women have reacted to them. In front of or around my wife. No bueno. But also keep in mind that those people who are very likely to act on those pheromones in public can have the lowest social filters for whatever reason. This includes lots of alcohol or I guess what I will politely call low emotional filters. One example I like to point out is a young lady who was using pheromones at her university. She also happened to ride a city bus to her school. She said that the nice looking guy who was also going to the university would look at her, smile and maybe say hello. She also said the wild-eyed stinky homeless guy who tended to ride that bus would be all over her. Just remember to think carefully about what pheromones you are wearing, what you want them to do for you, and where you will be wearing them. A lot of new users think sexual pheromone blends but the social ones tend to be more useful overall in my experience.