starlitegirl

Whoops, missed this post completely! Jo Anna, my heart goes out to you. Seriously. This is not a love life status I wish upon anyone. Here's to us finding a few nice men. I know they're out there. Perhaps hiding under a rock, me thinks.

I think tomorrow might very well be my first day wearing PG: Super. After your post, how can I not? It kind of cracks me up that SS has NO COPULINS because it appears to have a fantastic effect.

That's exactly what I was thinking for blends. Ambers, musks, vanillas, honeycomb, or anything with a spicy or almond or amaretto strong note works well too. Also, I have some that are from BPAL that are rich wine aromas with strong fruits or a blend of rich and ripe fruits with florals that I wore to cover EoW when I was wearing it alone. Those BPAL scents are perfect to cover it as are the snake oil variations they have because the rich incense type aroma mutes the overwhelming factor of EoW. The only ones I won't go near are creamy or light or softer, lighter type blends because the copulins would murder those. But since I tend to love a lot of rich scents that work as good cover, there are plenty I could work with. I only have some creamy scents - most of which are BPAL and then pure sugar that's softer and lighter and a few due to arrive from LPMP any day now that have some of the creamier blends that I think wouldn't mix well. Those are the ones I wouldn't touch with EoW. But I really liked the idea of mixing in some drops of EoW into a whole bottle of perfume oil and then not having to do a special EoW application (unless I choose to for special situations and then it will be LPMP's EOW). I'm under the impression that a hint of copulins works to my benefit any time except at work (given that I'm a 40 yr old single gal with no children). Having them on in a small dose via perfume seems easier than trying to find some balance with the messy drops. That just never went well. And since I tend to wear something like Instant Shine or Treasured Hearts as my primary pheromone blend, it's not like I'm cranking up the sexual component. It's just there more subtly, like what would be normal for a younger 20 something woman

Thanks Dolly! I noticed the copulins in phero girl for the first time today. They really stood out to me probably because I wore more than I did the last time I wore it. I guess I'll pick some of the heavier or richer scents to test with and do as you recommend - add only a few drops at a time. Since I'm in the habit of gently shaking all my oils before I apply that won't be problem. It's just a matter of picking which ones they can mix well with. Thanks for the help!

Recently I noticed that I got a lot of great hits when I was wearing Phero Girl with Treasured Hearts and two sprays of Instant Shine from androtics. It got me thinking that maybe just a hint of cops would work best for me in some of my LPMP scents that don't have pheros in them. I'm wondering if I could add some drops of the alcohol based EOW that I got from Love Scent to a few of my LPMP perfumes? And I'm also wondering how much I should add to match the amount that's in Phero Girl because that amount seemed to be perfect for me. I'm just not sure if the love scent one can be mixed with the LPMP scents since that EOW is alcohol based. Plus, I kind of want to use up that EOW without having to put it on alone since it's messy with the dropper and leaves a red mark on me.

Nerd school.... oh that's my first laugh of the day. THANKS!!! If they're true nerds, all the copulins might send them on overload (as would with most young guys). You might want to go with SS instead. Especially when dealing with younger guys that might not have the best social skills as is kind of the norm with nerds The copulins might just send them into such overload than they'll just walk around holding books and jackets in front of their pants all day and feel even more self-conscious than they already are and thus even more unable to do anything like flirt with you or ask you out. As I understand it, DYG is more of a relaxing phero blend that helps people to open up and be more chatty and drop their guard. Most people are guarded to some degree (probably against rejection) whereas TC has people pretty much spilling their guts to you - like a truth serum. I haven't figured out how I could use TC without it having the truth serum effect on me. So I've avoided it for that very reason. However, Dolly might be much more helpful. She's sort of the resident expert with answering questions - at least in my book.

I ordered a bottle of this and just tried it. At first when I put it on it smelled flat to me. Vaguely sweet. I figured I could layer it with something if it didn't work alone, but within a half hour it morphed into something completely unique. It's sweet but it's got the tiniest hint of perhaps the softest of musks? I wish I could describe it more accurately. Still sweet, but a very subtle spice or musk-like aroma that makes me want to sniff as deeply as I can. This was a lovely surprise and definitely a keeper.

I'm right now considering: LP: winter solstice 2008 sweet valentine (even though it appears to be geared toward teens - I just love the ingredients!) Eggnog riot (because YUM!) and maybe Cougar though I think I probably have all my phero needs covered. For some reason I'm still tempted. My finger has been itching to at least get winter solstice. I might settle for just that one and hold on the others until maybe I can try them (minus cougar).

OMG! I just got my order from 'Accessories for Fragrances' and she added all sorts of goodies! She's terrific! Time to put all my bottled fragrances into roll-ons. WOOHOO!

I went with the one you posted, Dolly. I looked at the two sites and really liked that I could get 25 in different colors. She sent them out the next day! I probably won't need any for ages now since I only wanted the roll-ons for my BPALs and the ones LP has in bottles. I really like the idea of having colors for the bottles because I can pick ones that I associate with the fragrances. The ones we get from LP are so easily to recognize with their artwork. But I'm just using small round computer printed labels. This way the colors will be so much easier for quick grabbing since I keep them in a little treasure chest box. But I was really glad to have two choices and bookmarked them both! Thanks again ladies!

You can say that again! Makes me want to try all of his blends just for the fun of it. Yup, I'm truly an addict.

Two choices! Wonderful! Thank you so much, ladies!

Oh the website would be great because I have a bunch of BPAL scents too that I'd really like to put into roll-on bottles even though their bottles are so pretty. I just like roll-on application better. Thanks!

I am really wanting to try estratetraenol and am thinking it would be great to add to honeycomb since I can layer that with mostly anything from LP. The write up says that it's a 10ml bottle. That's not a roll-on is it? Because I really love the roll-on bottles. Does anyone know where I can get a good deal on roll-on bottles. I'm thinking I'd like to put my phero girls and LP original in them too, and I have a sneaking suspicion that some of you ladies might know the best place to buy them. Thanks!

My second day of using this and so far on both days I've gotten smiles from two different men who were unable to do that before. They had been pretty timid around me. Yesterday, one was more cautious about it as he gave me a quick smile like he didn't want to risk rejection (but he was also a jerk to me some months back so I've ignored him for the most part). He also put himself around me most of my workout. I'm not kidding when I say that he made sure he was within observation distance and even within 4 or 5 feet of me a few times. And it was when he was that close that he managed the smile. Today, another guy who has been timid and working toward taking some initiative actually gave me the friendliest, nicest smile and hello. I'll give TH credit for that since until today, he could barely manage a half-hearted smile. I don't know, must be the Alpha in me that intimidates these guys. But he was practically next to me when he said hi, so I think TH definitely helped.

I'm with you, Dolly. Since at least some most of the blends have non pheromone added equivalents, why not pay a little more to get more bang for your buck? Aside from two of the pherogirl blends, I think everything else I have is unscented. And what I love even more about them is the ROLL-ON factor. I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE roll-ons!

I just tried this one today and absolutely loved it. Unfortunately, my skin loved it too and ate it up. It was gone within 1.5 hours. So sad because I really did like it. Strange how some scents just don't last on me. It really did remind me of nectar when I put it on. Mmmm...

Thanks Ail, the white light and words are very much appreciated. Your posts on various pheromones, especially Copulins and Est, have been very helpful to me and are helping me navigate the world of pheromones. Thanks for taking the time to write them.

Dolly, you give me hope. Great hope. Here's to me finding a man like that!

I got what you were alluding to. And your suggestion was perfect. Now I'm even thinking that Intellectual Woman might also be another good one, though I'm definitely going to be trying Treasured Hearts this week. My problem was that my thinking had gotten a little too black and white with relationship stuff. Seems like most of the guys in my past were either into me and focused on sex or not into me at all. And yet I'm not someone who does anything to court that kind of attention. I don't dress sexy. I barely wear makeup. I'm not even a flirter. I guess something like treasured hearts and maybe even intellectual woman are precisely what I need to draw out men who aren't solely focused on sex. I'm sure they exist somewhere. lol

This sounds like a really interesting blend. I was looking for something with EST that doesn't have the sex component after reading the EST thread. EST looks like something I'd be interested in but I don't want to get the 1oz bottle. Can anyone offer anymore experiences they've had when wearing this? From what I've read it sounds like it works mostly through creating better compatibility and respect. This one didn't catch my eye originally because I was thinking it would be more alpha and give off too much of an intellectual vibe which made me think more along the lines of 'workplace' but from the few reviews I've read, it sounds like I'm putting too much stock in the 'intellectual' name and this blend is more complex than that. Like it would be good for relationships in general, especially ones where other person might not lean toward giving you much respect - sort of puts you on equal ground so to speak. Does that make sense?

What's sad is that I've sort of come to believe over time that sex is the driving force behind why all men initiate with women. I know that there are instances where that's not the case. And I know that there are men out there who see beyond sex when it comes to relationships, but after reading your post this morning and sit in my brain for a while I realized that I've just become a bit jaded about it mostly because I've seen some men treat my a few friends like sex was their primary objective. Now that I've thought about it more, I realize that you're really spot on. Having them be attracted to be for reasons other than sex the smartest way to go. So treasured hearts and drop your guard are excellent choices and would absolutely be 100% better than going with cops, though down the line after someone gets to know you, some cops might be a savvy addition. Thanks luna65!

I knew you'd come to my rescue. Thanks Dolly!

I'm wondering if we have to adjust how much we use during our monthly cycles because I've noticed a few things. (Sorry if this is TMI for some of you.) When I started using cops it was my TOM. I noticed I had to use more to notice an effect of any kind. Now it's not my TOM and the level I'm using is looking a little bit like overload if I can tell by reading some of the guys at my gym. They sort of look at me/ watch me as they walk by. There's a bit of almost predatory type behavior, not so much in checking me out as much as assessing me. This seems to be mostly from younger guys. Late 20s on seem to hang around a little or not stray to far away once I've been within around 6 feet of them for a little. They seem to stay in that basic range to varying degrees. And of course there are the few that are clearly uncomfortable or thrown. So I'm thinking I have to decrease the amount due to this change in behavior from them. I'm also thinking that I need a better mix of pheros for the gym because it's got a social aspect but with a hint of work environment depending on how different people view it. So can any of you lovely and knowledgeable ladies help me figure out the right blend that would work in this environment rather than just cops alone. I want to be approachable and give people a sense of comfortableness around me with a little cops for the attraction factor that would encourage guys to take initiative if there's any interest. What I have to work with is: blatant invititation, drop your guard, treasured hearts, EoW - the alcohol based one (which is very messy so I'm switching to LP's EOW when this is used up) and from androtics: TAH, Instant Shine, and instant openness Orders that are coming from LP include: EOW oil based phero girl phero girl super So basically, I'm looking for something that makes me approachable without screaming sex but rather more of a hit of it to encourage men to take some initiative if there's any interest there. So far I've used just cops, cops w/ shine and just shine. I don't think any of those attempts have really sent the right message. Thanks for any help!

Thanks ladies. This is great to know. I totally forgot about custom blends, too.