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BlueBear

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  1. I don't understand why people would do this!! What a sad life they must lead that they get such enjoyment of putting others down! When I see a fellow lady with a good looking man, my first thought is "Get it, girl." And then my second thought is that he might be nice to look at but he could be ugly as sin on the inside, and that's what counts in the end. But no doubt that comment is just a reflection of their own insecurities, and I'm glad you ladies don't just stand there and take it!!
  2. I tend to be skeptical, and I'm a believer! I suppose some could be random, but if you wear these around people you know and are around daily, it's definitely easy to see when you get a reaction that's out of the ordinary. And just this week, I had a phero experience that was confirmed by a friend noticing strange reactions, and she doesn't know I use them.
  3. Well, my daily life has changed in that my search for pheros is what led me to this shop and forum. I've met so many wonderful friends on this forum and I enjoy interacting with them daily. Not being cheesy; this is truly the biggest impact! I think people are interesting beings (in another life, I think I would have been a psychologist or sociologist) so seeing how pheros affect them--and me!-- is something that I enjoy. But I guess my answer really depends on your definition of change. I think of pheros more as "enhancers." I don't think they will create something that isn't already there. So they haven't created more of a social life or a more successful career than I already have or generated interest from men who already weren't intrigued. But if I'm going through a rough time with a friend, some pheros have helped open the lines of communication so that we can correct the problem. I'm a fairly confident person, and some pheros amplify that. So yeah, they've enhanced my life but I don't think I've seen any dramatic changes in course because of them. Hope this makes sense!
  4. Well, I do wear some sexier pheros to work, namely Bang, Cuddle Bunny and LFM. With my personal chemical signature, these have a social feel on me, but i can very easily swing it to sexy when I'm around the person I want that attention from. But when i'm not planning to be around him, I keep the phero at home, because like the others said, it's a total waste of good phero! It's never been a problem for me; my work is 100% safe and my colleagues and bosses aren't leering at me and treat me with respect. But again, these pheros feel social on me. Mine are also in oil, and they wear really close on me, so the only people being affected are the people I invite into my personal space. I see a lot of yours are in sprays, which really gets the phero out there. If your aim for wearing these is to feel sexy and confident about yourself (which i suspect is the case from another of your posts), I would focus on the Cougar primarily and LAM until you get a handle on how pheros effect you and the people around you. Good luck!
  5. I just saw this, and it's so true, and not just with Cougar. One of the people I've Leathered has had a permanent attitude adjustment, and it's made the workplace all that much better!
  6. I've worn pheros under Pink Sugar. It's still just as cloyingly sweet with them, so if you don't like it now, you probably still won't like it, lol!! Also, you have to project the image that the phero is helping create. For example, if you wear a sexy, confident phero, then you need to carry yourself as a sexy, confident woman. People will more likely connect that sexy, confident vibe with you, and the risk of "hit stealing" is minimized. I never had a hit "stolen" but I know I got a ton more when I started carrying myself congruently with the phero I was wearing. (Of course, the self effects helped with that!!) Good luck!
  7. Welcome!! I came here originally for the pheros but became obsessed with the scents. You'll have fun here!!
  8. And kids are pretty wise! My sister and I used to babysit our cousin. I didn't know how to play with little children, and he sensed that, so he would go play with my sister. When he needed a diaper change or was ready to eat, he knew to come to me. LOL!
  9. This...is,,,fabulous!! I want to lick it!! I put this on, and I swear someone had wheeled a cake into the room! It reminds me of a cake my grandma used to make called a Sock it to Me Cake. (It's a butter cake she made in a bundt pan with a pecan filling that she put at the bottom. Then when you flipped it onto a plate, the sugary pecans were embedded in the top. Mmmmmmmmm!) Anyway, even though Mara used three coconuts in here, I get just the barest hint of it on my skin. The pecan is the star of the show for me. It's sweet and at the forefront, but it's not overwhelming. Usually in a scent like this, I amp the vanilla, but it stays in th background on this. Overall, a warm, pretty, sensual scent. I think I'm gonna wear the hell out of this one!!! ETA: Just wanted to add that this one's a trooper! Post shower, I still get some vanilla pecan.
  10. BlueBear

    Kitten Heels

    i played with this again last night. i think what I was reading as pepper is maybe the tea before it begins to mellow. Missdarlyncherie, don't be afraid of the musk!! I think it plays well in this.
  11. I think i remember reading a post somewhere about how a moose got up close and personal with someone!! My dog is extra cuddly when I wear some pheros. I should pay attention and see which ones.
  12. Welcome!!! There's so much to choose from here! I don't think of myself as a foodie scent person, but they jsut do them so well here! As we speak, I'm slathered in a wonderful cake scented fragrance!!! Like Ravenwing said, Garland and Lace is fabulous, as is Breakfast in Bed. Have fun!
  13. BlueBear

    Spring Fever

    Mmmmm, spring in a bottle!! It seems a shame to have even opened this bottle on such a gray day. It needs sunlight. It's a very classy floral, but youthful. Not old ladyish at all. The musk helps ground it. I can tell this is going to wear wonderfully! ETA: So last night I spilled half the vial on my sofa. But the good news is that it didn't stain, and my sofa smells so good, I haven't been able to get off of it!!
  14. Just taking a moment to celebrate that I have 1,111 posts!!
  15. BlueBear

    Kitten Heels

    Is verbena peppery? In the vial and when I first put this on, it smells peppery. It's gone after about five minutes, and I get mostly green tea. It's a nice, mellow scent. It's still early, but I'm hoping I get more vanilla out of it as it wears on.
  16. No, this isn't dirty at all!!! At first on my skin, it smelled like a Tootsie Roll pop, which is what chocolate does to me. But that quickly went away and all I was left with was yum! It doesn't smell too much like Phero Girl on my skin. I think the peach helps "clean up" the honey. It's sweet, mildly floral, and sweet. Just lovely! I don't want to jinx this, but I think this might be the first chocolate scent I can wear!!!!!!!!!
  17. I got a sniffie of this, and it really does smell as if someone has rubbed black forest cake on me. Yum!!!
  18. Yeah, I know BI has the tendency to creep back up on you if it doesn't dry down properly. It took me over half a bottle before I got the hang of it! Oooh, I see Moonholly recommended BANG! I agree 1000%. It's quickly becoming my go to. The effects on others are awesome, but the self effects... Have fun!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  19. Yeah, 2nd day LP Red is very nice. But on me, it's the patchouli that's resistant to being washed off!
  20. Tommy Girl smelled like a dream on me back in my teen years. Then again...maybe I just thought that. I should revisit it in the store to see if I smell as good as I thought I did!
  21. This might be a dumb question, but are you wearing a fragrance over the phero? Please correct me if I'm wrong, but the way this sentence is worded makes me think not. If you are not, please do it! While I, personally, don't mind the smell of the un-pheros, they do smell like natural body odors to my nose and could be a turn off to those you are hoping to attract. The LAMs, BAMs, and OCCOs are all scented, but Audacious, Stone Cougar, Blatant Invitation, Lumina, etc are not and should be covered with a fragrance (unless you get a pheromone enhanced fragrance, like Mara's Rocket Fuel, which is a fragrance with SS4W added). Especially those with cops, like Blatant Invitation. There are a ton of scents here. Check out the Reviews section and the Perfumerie of the shop to see what all they have. Apply your phero and let it dry down to meld with your skin. Cougar, SS4W, Lumina, can all dry down in about 15 minutes for me. I allow longer times for the cops heavy blends, like Blatant Invitation. I usually apply those right out of the shower and let it dry down at least half an hour before I apply my fragrance. I think Cougar is a great choice! I get great self effects, friendly vibes form women and coworkers, and lots of attention from men. Stone Cougar is the unscented phero, and Cougar Potion is a fragrance with Stone Cougar added. It's a lovely scent, and does not just attract the young men, lol! Lumina is a great mood elevator for me, as is La Femme Mystere. (Again, these two are unscented and should be worn with a fragrance. The perfumerie does offer two scents with these pheros added already, All Hallow's Eve with Lumina and Goddess of the Blue Moon with LFM.)
  22. Started this up for you Calii. Bring on da review!!!
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