Ail )O( Posted April 28, 2008 Share Posted April 28, 2008 Okay, so let's get to EST.. I have been using EST for YEARS and it is probably my fave pheromonal molecule ever (many don't count copulins as a pheromone in the strictest sense, but as you all know, they ARE my fave) and Est is incredibly useful. I see a lot of people talk about EST and not really know just WHAT it does, so let me just explain where, and when and why I use Est, and what it was that brought me to create the recipe for the original Cuddle Bunny formulation..I used it for years in various ways, but it was last year when it truly came into its own. I'm not going into details, but I just had my very own "Annus Horribilis" and the man in my life basically went to hell and back, and through some tremendously stressful times in 2007.. I'm going to explain my years of experience of the effects that a WOMAN wearing Est has on both genders. And self-effects. For me, there are NO self-effects, and I don't get self-effects from ANYTHING phero-related, except from copulins. I have explained this time and again at others forums and put it down now to being on a lot of medication on a constant basis and over many years now. Perhaps I simply am immune from the self-effects side, but to be honest, no matter, as I love the way pheros affect others in my company, so all is good. So some of you might experience self-effects, but me - no. Around ladies I already know, Est makes them super-friendly, amiable and can even make slightly-stand-offish women visibly thaw a tad. Women I don't know, always seem to want to DO things for me. So that's nice. It's like a sense of camaraderie develops within groups of women when I wear Est (I like to use 200 mcg with women, and that usually goes into my hair and on the backs of my hands) and I have definitely used it a couple of times to deliberately "soften" a more umm..strait-laced, grumpy lady. It worked very well, and I ALWAYS remember to wear some Est now, if I know she will be joining our company. Now..Est, when I wear it around men (or rather "man"), is a totally different ball-game entirely. Est to be quite honest..Soothes even the most savage beast, and can turn a grizzly bear of a man into a teddy-bear, who is almost purring with contentment and calm..Est is known as the "cuddle pheromone" for a good reason. If you wear as LITTLE as 50 mcg in a man's presence, be prepared for an INCREDIBLY protective and docile man, who just wants to cuddle and to be held in your arms..A lot. Be prepared in fact for a man turning into not a baby, but someone who likes to snuggle..A lot.. The man in my life is 6 foot 7 and he is intimidating in his own right, JUST because of that. I am 5 foot 10. He also has some fairly sharp edges to him now, due to what he went through last year, and so he often can appear to others (and to me too at times) to be a big ole grizzly-bear, when underneath it all..He really is not that way at all. Heh.. I just seem to write for Scotland whenever I even think of him. He's been in my life 13 years now, is seven years younger than me (I've just turned 41), and we were Best Friends ONLY, for almost 11 of those years, before more ever developed between us. But I digress (not unusual..) as that's a story I am hugging all to myself.. All I will say is this.. For any of you who believe that friends cannot ever become more than that, and last.. Believe me, they sure can.. Even if you BOTH thought it would never happen, NEVER considered it, NEVER thought of each other that way and had to listen to people tell you both for YEARS that you should be together >_>..It CAN last.. Anyway..Back to Est.. I found that using the small amount of 50 mcg sprayed into my hair, without fail turned my lovely man from a grumpy-guts into a big Cuddle-Bunny - very quickly, and also worked to calm him right down, and pry him from the ceiling, to where at times last year..He definitely gravitated.. It simply brought him back to if you will - "Equilibrium." Back to homoeostasis within his own skin, and to a place in himself where the problems didn't ever cease to exist of course - but they were significantly diminished for him.. A place he felt safe.. Est is also wonderful combined with LP Red, and other LP Fragrances (see my post in the LP Red review thread for more info) and in this way, it is fantastic for spraying into your hair, diffusing the pheromone, and just letting a man you really care about, allow YOU to take care of him for once.. I can't recall just when it was I started to add EW to my Est, I just remember the reaction and thinking..WOW.. What an amazing formula THAT turned out to be.. Every woman has a "sweet-spot" for their EW usage of course dependent on many factors like age, whether or not they are on oral BC, and various other lifestyle factors, but once you get it right, and add it to a bottle of Est (I always advise you do this in a smaller quantity until you get YOUR optimum dosage achieved) just watch the cuddles, and as Mara told you, what those can inevitably lead to..Take you over - completely.. Don't dismiss Est if you are neither a cuddler or in fact have a man in your life who ALREADY loves to cuddle, as honestly..the way Est transforms a simple hug into so much more of a real "being-wrapped-in-a blanket-together, esoteric, cuddly experience - is just something you have to experience for yourself.. I love Est and will never be without it now. I hope this has helped a bit, and as always, any questions, please ask them here and I'll get to them as soon as I can. I also want to add one more lovely thing you can try with Est too..This is for those of you who practice any form of The Craft whatsoever, and even for those of you who don't practice but would simply like at times to (with a PURE and unselfish heart!!!) help a man you love or care about deeply, to feel contentment, even when he is not in your arms.. Anoint a pink candle as you normally do. I have my own method, and these vary, so I am not going to tell anyone the right way to do this, as there are many, but simply using the number of drops you yourself use to dress a candle, anoint it with Betrothal, Lover's Reunion, or Communication here from LP. As always, charge the bottle with your intent prior to anointing the candle, apply a drop of your chosen fragrance to each of your wrists, and over your heart, and let the Universe be aware that your intentions are pure, and all for the Greater Good. To do this, simply hold the bottle in your dominant hand (this seems to vary enormously depending on which path you have chosen to follow) and tell the Universe that you wish to aid (insert the man's name here) to get to a place in himself where his worries are small, and where his troubles are replaced by a feeling of inner-peace and contentment. The feeling he gets when you hold him your arms, and when you tell him it will all be okay.. Then apply to your chest, over your heart, a spray of Est, and one to the back of each hand. Hold your hands clasped together in your lap, focus in your mind's eye on the face of man you want to help, and see him there. Really concentrate on how he looks, try to remember exactly how he smells to you, how his eyes look when you are holding him close to you..How that makes you feel. Light your candle.. Look into the heart of the flame and imagine you are holding him in your arms and taking all of his troubles away just by doing so. Let your candle burn fully, as you gaze into it, thinking of the feeling of contentment you are projecting towards the man in your life, and imagine holding him in your arms and easing away his stresses. Feel yourself healing his tired mind and sore heart. Making him whole again. ALWAYS snuff your candle out. Never blow out a candle. This is enough for everything to work, and IF YOU TRULY BELIEVE, then I can assure you, the man in your life will benefit - and strongly from your helping him in this way. But for those who do wish to also add a form of Affirmation, the one I love to use when I am doing this, is the following: Brilliance Clarity Resolution I call to the power of the white and the blue Eternal Healing Cleansing Now I aid YOU. This is my will. I ask this in the name of all that is good. So Mote It Be.. Blessings, light and love to you all. Ail )O( Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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