Just came back to this since my original comment. I understand what HappyGoSkillfully is saying and friends hook up friends all the time and just about every female here has swooned over some of the male models Mara has used and at least one person here has admitted they have a weakness for male "eye candy" but I think the impression of judgmental about looks is the key difference here as has been pointed out. It's one thing to notice an attractive member of the opposite sex as well as realizing you are attracted to, say, tall blonds or whatever. Being judgmental about looks is something different though.
@Beccah: Darlin' - at 5 ft tall, half of the male population (5'10" & above) is approaching giant unless you are wearing your big heels haha!
I hope it went well!